What motivates your perspective?? Do you look at negatives, as positives in diguise, or do you tend to propel the negatives and miss your positives?? And what makes your life an adventure, or an adventure waiting to happen? What defines you?

Negatives and positives are just experiences or even people in your life, you try, you fail, succeed, fall, get hurt, love, laugh, it's all the same. One day we'll be old and look back at it all and be glad for the moments and lessons.

Dispassionate reverence.

I don't follow my own advice.

So far ive kicked Cancers sss, so I guess I should feel pretty positive....
although it does come with a life sentence of always looking over your shoulder....if you let it.
Im trying really hard NOT to do that!
Im just lucky to still be here with all of my Mingle family and havihg fun with them, ya know?

As we are Blessed with your friendship U sexxy lady!!!

And you already know how glad we are to have you and your unique perspectives........thank you for sharing..

LOL, thank you for sharing........

And U grace us everyday with your beautiful face and personality!!

Thank you for sharing

You old cout, you never waste a chance to flatter a girl..........

Especially if a young hottie like U!!! And just WHO is old?

AS time goes by, the thought will fade more and more. Once hitting the 5 year mark myself, didn't realize how much it was in the back of my mind. We're given 2nd chances, being thankful; daily for each gift is a wonderful way of living, and giving back.

5 years....thank you Jesus!!!

Im so touched by what everyone has written, and I thank you all.

I could of just layed down and died, but I figured i'de stay around awhile and keep shaken things up here....


its too damn much fun no to.

Mikey will never be too old to chase a skirt....

I know that! And I wouldnt change a thing about him!

I know I was just teasing him and he knows it............wouldn't have any other way either

I officially crowned him KING PERV on the threads, and he earned it!!

We are all still crazy in love with you too Roberta. Mauh muah muah........slurp.

I look at negatives somewhat as a balance, because with out them would there be anything considered positive?
However I do strive to steer away from negativity, there is not much room in my life for it. For we will always have some in our lives that we can not control to not come in our lives, such as loss of loved ones etc.. or our jobs being closed down those kinds of things.. Now do I ponder on negativity? noooo! Do I need to carry everyone around me and their negativity within me? Noooooo Do I learn things from negativity? yes I do.. and that is where it becomes a positive thing for me.and with that they both do motivate my perspectives..

I love you more.....na na na na na na.

I love you infinity!

(im so juvenile...hahahhahhah)

Thought provoking as always Sea. My perspective changes based on where I am in my life. Since my divorce my perspective has been clouded. I can find the positive in others and all around me but when it comes to me and how I am doing, I only see negative. Where I am falling short. It is frustrating but I am working on it. I believe that the more I face about myself the more I evolve. I want to be the best person I can be and that won't happen until I can look at myself clearly and define me.