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newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 05/31/10 06:24 PM
Honey could I have a bj and a sandwich. Well of course dear anything for you. That's about right..................

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 06/01/10 09:54 AM
I am finding out, although I have not been on here that long, there are more guys on here who just want a lay than a relationship. It makes me mad, I will see a decent looking guy's photo, click on it, read his profile, and it just says something about just having sex!! And they're so blunt about it!! And although I made it very clear that I am not to be contacted if that is the motive, they do it anyway! Like wtf?? I am here for a potential relationship, not to be used, so therefore I feel as though people who are posting those suggestions in their descriptions should go to another website, one that is for people who are not looking for a long term, healthy, real relationship, ya know? Anyone with me?? (The best, or should I say, the worst one was the guy's "interests" was "eating girls and good at it!!") LOL Soo gross, seriously, cmon guys.....go somewhere else for that ****. For real.... I actually salute those types that put it on their profile.. if thats not your calling just pass on it. give them some credit for being honest at least. dont let it fool you that ones that dont have that on their profile arent looking for the same thing<many times>.. only wanting to string everyone along as well.and get attention. be telling all the woman the very same thing they are telling you.. <yes women do this as well>. more than likely the ones putting that they just want sex, and if one is interested in that.. they wont be let down probably a higher chance of follow through on the expectancies of how they portray themselves.

sherry4382 Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 4000	Tue 06/01/10 10:06 AM
You just have to know how to use it to your advantage...tease them a little, show them what you got but don't give it to them until they talk normal to you. Eventually they will do anything to get in bed with you, now that's control!!

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 06/01/10 10:08 AM
You just have to know how to use it to your advantage...tease them a little, show them what you got but don't give it to them until they talk normal to you. Eventually they will do anything to get in bed with you, now that's control!! Tell me about it

sherry4382 Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 4000	Tue 06/01/10 10:09 AM
You just have to know how to use it to your advantage...tease them a little, show them what you got but don't give it to them until they talk normal to you. Eventually they will do anything to get in bed with you, now that's control!! Tell me about it I have learned a few things over the past few years

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 06/01/10 10:24 AM
I would say just get over it, ignore it, whatever, life goes on and is too short to get angry over something so minimal.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Tue 06/01/10 10:35 AM
Yep, all I am all about is self fulfillment. Yep Yep Yep! There have been times I slept with a woman once and KNEW I did not want to be saddled with her in a serious relationship. Love, sex, and relationships are a messed up game. I can also argue that most women are into gratifying their own vanity and security on the backs of men. 90% of women want Prince Charming to sweep her off of her feet and live happily ever after in HIS castle. The other 10% have live of their own. I want in on that 10% becasue the other 90% live in a perpetual fantasy. Better a happy horney toad than a pathetic prince! Seriously, this is one of those WHY CAN'T I FIND INSTANT GRATIFICATION threads. PS. There is one of "those" sites, Adultfriendfinder. I have a reason why I am here and not there. I don't pay for sex at all. If anything women should be paying ME for it! I put that much effort into making sure she gets hers! I am not out for instant gratification. I am looking for Ms. Perfect! Not Ms. "She will do for the moment!" I'm 44 and so far ALL I have ever known in my life is disappointment! Whining about it will get me no where! Likewise all I do is take each day as it comes. Why get mad about things outside of your control? If dating was so was so easy I could pick up the phone right now and have something to do tonight besides paperwork and homework for my job! Sheesh!

sherry4382 Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 4000	Tue 06/01/10 10:38 AM
Yep, all I am all about is self fulfillment. Yep Yep Yep! There have been times I slept with a woman once and KNEW I did not want to be saddled with her in a serious relationship. Love, sex, and relationships are a messed up game. I can also argue that most women are into gratifying their own vanity and security on the backs of men. 90% of women want Prince Charming to sweep her off of her feet and live happily ever after in HIS castle. The other 10% have live of their own. I want in on that 10% becasue the other 90% live in a perpetual fantasy. Better a happy horney toad than a pathetic prince! Seriously, this is one of those WHY CAN'T I FIND INSTANT GRATIFICATION threads. PS. There is one of "those" sites, Adultfriendfinder. I have a reason why I am here and not there. I don't pay for sex at all. If anything women should be paying ME for it! I put that much effort into making sure she gets hers! I am not out for instant gratification. I am looking for Ms. Perfect! Not Ms. "She will do for the moment!" I'm 44 and so far ALL I have ever known in my life is disappointment! Whining about it will get me no where! Likewise all I do is take each day as it comes. Why get mad about things outside of your control? If dating was so was so easy I could pick up the phone right now and have something to do tonight besides paperwork and homework for my job! Sheesh! Ya i highly doubt 90% of women are looking for prince charming, I think we are looking for a younger version of Hugh Heffner

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 06/01/10 10:42 AM
Here is why we do it....... Women can change their mind at the drop of a hat. God forbid we try to act like gentlemen in that split second of wanton hornitude. (That's right.....I said "wanton") Besides.....a fisherman don't cast his bait out there once....reel it in then go home...... A real fisherman keeps casting until he is too drunk to fish and wakes up smelling like stink bait with a treble hook snagged in his butt cheek. That's how we roll baby.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 06/01/10 10:57 AM
Here is why we do it....... Women can change their mind at the drop of a hat. God forbid we try to act like gentlemen in that split second of wanton hornitude. (That's right.....I said "wanton") Besides.....a fisherman don't cast his bait out there once....reel it in then go home...... A real fisherman keeps casting until he is too drunk to fish and wakes up smelling like stink bait with a treble hook snagged in his butt cheek. That's how we roll baby. Funny, I have never had a guy act the "Gentleman" when I wanted it?? And every fisherman's path I crossed, still keep casting in my Picsean waters (the things that make you go hmmm).......the most problem I have had is guys taking the hint, it ain't going no where.