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Topic: I don't get it sometimes.
stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:30 PM
I'm not a bad looking guy, I work , get along with others and all I ever get is your not my type. See I don't follow the lates trends I'm just myself. Am I supposed to be damaged goods or something because all my sad stories are forgotten ? All I have are good things to say.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 05/27/10 09:42 PM
WEll your profile does not say much about & always be cautious of 1 pic & a head shot?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 05/27/10 09:43 PM
I once met a GUY with a HEAD shot his profile didn't say much about him & he was like 300 lbs............

stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:43 PM
I will post more pics soon, thanks

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 05/27/10 09:46 PM
You're a good looking guy... It's not about looks though or shouldn't be.. What's inside matters, the brain and the heart... The sense of humor.. Maybe it's the type you're going for, maybe they like another type.. You can't let their types affect what you think of you but maybe reflect on the type you typically go for and try something different...

stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:49 PM
Thank you very much. I did post some more pictures on what I look on my days off. I'm always well groomed when I go into public.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 05/27/10 09:49 PM
You're a good looking guy... It's not about looks though or shouldn't be.. What's inside matters, the brain and the heart... The sense of humor.. Maybe it's the type you're going for, maybe they like another type.. You can't let their types affect what you think of you but maybe reflect on the type you typically go for and try something different... This is TRUE, But I fel as though I was tricked? Mislead I went on with the DATE & even offered him a GYM membership only he refused & ate like a PIG and also had like 7 glasses of Iced Tea I wanted to puke!

stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:49 PM
I'm 170 lbs

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 05/27/10 09:50 PM
Thank you very much. I did post some more pictures on what I look on my days off. I'm always well groomed when I go into public. YES you do seem attractive

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 05/27/10 09:52 PM
I once met a GUY with a HEAD shot his profile didn't say much about him & he was like 300 lbs............ Not that there is anything wrong with being a big man. Some women definitely like it.

stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:52 PM
Thanks

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 05/27/10 09:53 PM
Referring to another mail is usually not a good thing for me. Whenever I have gone to the other mail they became leches.

stilllooking1974 Joined Wed 10/07/09 Posts: 12	Thu 05/27/10 09:54 PM
Well goodnite everyone, Juan

Chance1972 Joined Wed 06/23/10 Posts: 9	Fri 06/25/10 12:42 PM
Fear. It's on both sides. Not wanting to be hurt again by some guy who looks like the right one. Stinks to be a guy that's not like all the rest though. Good guy here. I'm not the most attractive looking man in the bunch, but I'm not Quasimodo. At least I don't think so. I've got a good heart, morals, an amazing joke repertoire AND I can spell repertoire. I get it but it hurts like heck.

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Fri 06/25/10 12:46 PM
If you ever find the solution, post it, I'd like to know.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Fri 06/25/10 12:55 PM
Maybe they are just over it like me?? Been there done that over it, like being in control of my own life and surroundings.......

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Fri 06/25/10 12:55 PM Edited by Seakolony on Fri 06/25/10 12:55 PM
Oops dbl post