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Topic: getting tired of this crap
dingo1139's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:12 PM

well we know where your mind is.. laugh laugh laugh


no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:13 PM
Lucky you! I wish my metabolism was still crazy active... grumble

dingo1139's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:18 PM

Lucky you! I wish my metabolism was still crazy active... grumble


i know huh lol. bleh anyway i should probably make a new topic somewhere. i'm feeling a lot better haha :banana:

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:22 PM
Glad you are!!! This place has a way of doing that... drinker

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:27 PM



so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with


Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person?



wtf my reply didnt post?

but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me.


ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha
Good thing I asked first. :P

So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too.
Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready?
If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.flowerforyou

dingo1139's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:35 PM




so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with


Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person?



wtf my reply didnt post?

but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me.


ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha
Good thing I asked first. :P

So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too.
Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready?
If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.flowerforyou


nope we never had any sex

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:37 PM


well we know where your mind is.. laugh laugh laugh


no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol


yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh*

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:38 PM





so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with


Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person?



wtf my reply didnt post?

but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me.


ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha
Good thing I asked first. :P

So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too.
Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready?
If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.flowerforyou


nope we never had any sex


Well, then its her "cop-out". She was not sincere to begin with.... move on.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:39 PM



well we know where your mind is.. laugh laugh laugh


no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol


yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh*



Sorry C I don't believe it... You are mega hot... drinker

dingo1139's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:39 PM






so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with


Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person?



wtf my reply didnt post?

but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me.


ok well, that is going to change my originally intended answer for you completely then...ha ha
Good thing I asked first. :P

So if I get this straight you guys talked for a bit online... and the night you guys met for the first time you asked her to be your girl friend, right? And she said "Yes" claiming she really liked you too.
Did you guys get intimate that night? Or did you make sexual advances towards her, but she wasn't really ready?
If you guys did, she may feel a bit uncomfortable after that. That could be one scenario.... more than likely if you guys had sex, thats what that is. The other scenario, lets say you guys didn't have sex, and she does not return your phonecalls and ignores you and hangs up when you call (which, sorry pal, sounds a bit stalkerish... you may wanna lay off on doing that... just saying), it just means that she was not sincere when she said "Yes" the first time. You kinda put her on the spot, and she maybe was just being nice when you asked her. Either way tho, the best thing is to give her some space. She has your number, she knows you like her, you laid it out there on the table for her, the ball is in her court, so back off a little and don't seem so desperate and stalkerish, cuz that will only turn her away from you even further.. Who knows maybe in a few weeks down the road she will contact you again...very unlikely, but theres a chance. But I would not initate any further contact with her. Some people just have a hard time just saying straight up:" I am not interested in you.". Those people think that they are being nice, by just not saying anything, ignoring you, when in all reality their cop-out is making it harder for you to move on, always wondering "what if" and " and maybe they do like me, but they are just shy..etc". Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but it pays off in the long run.flowerforyou


nope we never had any sex


Well, then its her "cop-out". She was not sincere to begin with.... move on.


moving on...

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Fri 05/14/10 09:44 PM



so i met this one girl on another dating site about 4 months ago and been talking ever since. we hit it off really good and she says she likes me a lot and we have been so into eachother. so just a couple weeks ago i ask her to be my girlfriend and she says yes she would love that....and then ever since she's been ignoring me! she dont reply to my messages, she doesnt answer my calls, i call her on blocked numbers, she answers and when she realizes its me she hangs up? what the *** gives? this is the 3rd time this has happened! i'm getting so sick of this crap and about ready to give up and stay single the rest of my life. all i ever do is get used and played with


Excuse me, but one question still looms.... Did you ever meet her in person?



wtf my reply didnt post?

but anyways yea we did meet on the night i asked her to be my gf. i probably should have put that in there. we had so much fun together and when i did ask her, she told me she was hoping i would ask cause she really "liked" me. but then the day after thats when she literally stopped talking to me and ignored me.

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:45 PM




well we know where your mind is.. laugh laugh laugh


no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol


yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh*



Sorry C I don't believe it... You are mega hot... drinker


Likewise, but you're ULTRA HOT! Thats hotter than MEGA!:tongue:

Jeremysg's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:45 PM
well man what can you do sounds like maybe shes a little nuts, so be optimistic maybe you dodged a bullet without realizing it.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 05/14/10 09:51 PM





well we know where your mind is.. laugh laugh laugh


no actually my mind is on eating some cookies at another failed attempt to gain weight lol


yea, stop making all of us women jealous..I wouldn't mind a cookie and a glass of milk right now.... but I'd way 300lbs if I did that...*sigh*



Sorry C I don't believe it... You are mega hot... drinker


Likewise, but you're ULTRA HOT! Thats hotter than MEGA!:tongue:


Aww you make me blush... But I have nothing on you... flowerforyou

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