what i mean is i done ton load of pictures, Yet haven't hardly heard back from any one.. So i redid my profile few times but my photo's are best ther gona get.. I have no other way getting newer ones on. So after all this photo's gezz kind makjes me wonder if im just wasting my time clicking on all those pic's. other thing is is ther better why to actually chat with some one.. I barely get on long enough to nchat so i can only use sending emails..seems like most lady's perfer to actually chat.. I dont have my own computer so its my job & my mom's place.. so idk..

patience grasshopper, patience..

patience yep...patience

when you go to a profile there should be a button to instant message them. Many have this feature turned off though.

Being active in the forums helps as well.

Not very often..............

thanks i'll turn it on if its not active..

This.

I have noticed that some of my "Matches" are not even online anymore ,some might have canceled their accounts...who knows...But hey, something to do on a lazy Sunday afternoon, I ain't complaining.
:)

Mutual Match? ... what's that?

All ya' gotta' do is stare at your screen and concentrate on a row of the pictures on your match until you get mail from them.

It may take a while and if you take your eyes off them, you'll have to start all over again.

Patients, cricket, patients!

Do not normally go to Mutual Match. Mostly email and forums. I dislike sitting at a pc, so I use my phone for my entertainment pages which are few.

I don't have phone get on internet, dang lol... got cell phone just not paying extra for internet service on my phone.. my pop has been on al this time no one yet.. o well patince lol

I think you would have to be turning your phone off because of being so tired of gettin' pestered by all those guys who wanna' get next to you.

And Benji, use the search and if you see a gal you like, send her 1 email and introduce yourself.

What flattering statement Willing, thank you. :)

thats always a brain fart for me.. introducing my self... well i'l half to work on that like grag paper & pin just start writing down what to say so i can feel comfortable do it.. thats sorta hard for me..

My mutual matches scare me

There ya' go, son.
If ya' wanna' take the hard out of it, ya' gotta' work it!

You definitely have to be proactive in online dating; that includes participating in the forums rather than just trolling the profiles.

Reciprocated attraction is a rare occurrence. Be patient.

Most of mine do too...

Why am I never matched up with one U gorgeous ladies?