i appreciate that more than you could imagine, and thankyou for the compliments! and the feeling's definitely mutual, i'll keep doing my best like as of late....

i was gone for quite awhile on here, and didn't lose any friends over a five month period, and was quite surprized to see that. there were three who deactivated i noticed, but some of them come back, so i will never erase them, and they'll know i'm there in one form or another.

Well, we are rock solid and steady ...

... You'll always have a place to stay in Boulder, or wherever destiny's compass leads me!

And? ... You can't lose friends, only enemies or apathetics that feigned friendship ...

TRUE Friend SHIP is a boat that sails for lifetimes and then some ...

Salut, dear friend ...

i'm on a quest for wisdom, and for forgiving transgresses, and it's good training for the soul,and the journey to be the proverbial "man on the mountain" which is a long way off in my standings, for i hunt and go after bullies, and i have to come to peace with that, and i'm finding less aggressive ways to do so, as they are just at a different stage in life than i, and it's up to me, not to judge, but to understand. some guys though, deserve a thorough a$$ whoopin still. then i'll reason, lol.

but it's still hard to hold back at times...

yep that it is

i'd love to visit Colorado! we'll take a small road trip to see fear and loathing as well, he just moved out near there..... and my spare bedroom is available for you at any time here in fla. when you need to hit the beach! or universal, or disney, lol

dark i also always enjoy ya words of wisdom in some post i don't answer in alot of them but i do read them from time to time i be happy to call ya a friend

they are supposed to be friends??? I keep them around to feed me gummy bears

I truly believe ya can't forgive one that doesn't feel sorrow and remorse, it is really repenting for another's errors that never "takes" ...

... I do believe forgiveness is a supernatural quality that should always be extended for those who truly regret their errors ...

Even then, it is as if prayed down anew each day ... Much like getting psychically dressed for the occasion!

Not forgiving is toxic!

Those not forgivable as they continue wrongful, hurtful actions w/ out remorse or revision ...

... Put them up on the prayer mantle and get as far away as possible! Let 'em go ...

ya or those stupid pink ponies

I agree with Tina, I talk to those I consider friends in the forums. You don't have to email someone every freaking day to be considered their friend, and I'd never delete someone just because of that. But that's just me. Also, if someone ever does delete me, I never speak to them again.

i don't email them every day i do talk to true ones in forums an on fb but there are some i do email through here cause they don't but if someone does deactivate all the time off an on kind of get tired of thinking did ya do something wrong too them to make them do that got tired of seeing people do that too

Why in the world would someone try to re-add someone who deleted them? That's saying the other person is somehow better and like you're kissing their *** or something by "begging" to be added back.

I say good riddance to bad rubbish, if I wasn't good enough to be on their friends list, they can **** off. But again, that's just me.

You are on, my friend, it is a date w/ destiny, camaraderie and joy!!!

well i have good friends i trust then there are the bad apples an i don't need them any more, an i do have some that did re add me cause they think of me as a friend an i do them but others i do not

I used to deactivate all the time and it had nothing to do with anyone on my friends list. If anyone took my deactivation personally, that's their problem and possibly a sign of paranoia. It was mainly because I found better things to do in life than hang out on here all the time, and once I actually forgot I had an account and stayed gone for about a year before I remembered and reactivated.

It doesn't bother me if someone deletes me from their list, it's just a list, it doesn't really mean anything. That's one reason I hide my friends; I figure it's no one's business who I'm friends with, because I talk to those I like in the forums and the rest, I pretty much ignore.

well i only did what i did cause i got tired of some bad apples on here i have good friends i know who they are they were there when i needed advice i had good day today with dr so that cheer me up too an all my friends were there for that.. i always cherish my friends but if they aren't who they say they are then to me its a bad apple

That's awesome Kerry, I'm very glad that you have dear friends on mingle that you can trust. I've never met anyone from this site, so I have no idea if I can trust them or not. But I'm glad you are confident in that. Congrats to you and best wishes.