I've been on this site a few days now, I see that I have to me quite
alot of views, but to no avail any mail, awh there was a few, one wanted
a clearer pic, another wanted a different pic, I am shy too, but I put
it up there in front of my face and now nothing no mail, doesn't help
the ego, especially at my age, I feel like some kind of hussy, some
wanted me to give them my email address so they could send me there pic,
when I said no they left.
I am at a loss, at age 50 since May, how good looking do you expect
someone to be, or are you men just wanting the young stuff, well that's
fine by me, I am not asking for marriage, or a relationship, right now I
only want some friends alot of you say this site rocks, well for
me........it's made me even sadder than my life is right now...
sry no more appeasing request, just being on a site like this for the
first time in my life is hard, my hands shake every time I type someone,
my heart beats fast, for fear of saying maybe the wrong thing, but to
that one that I had enjoyed chatting with the most, you seemed to have
disappeared, you asked me for a brighter pic, I put one up, now you are
gone. Sry I scared you with my pic, just thought I'd do what I've seen
here, already. Trying to fit in is all. Getting ready, to decide if I
should stay or go back to my lil lonely apt.
I am in the mist of a deadly breakup with a drunk of a man that pours
cans of stupid down his throat every day, once the stuff is inside of
him, a evil, deadly monster, comes out to play with me, he's scary and
abusive, I feel like a child, when I have to hide in the closets and
cubby parts of my attic, I phone the police, but when they come he acts
all sweet and innocent, they see no brusing or cuts so they leave and I
am alone, in this dance no family nor friends to confide in, it seems no
matter where I go I am alone
I just got a new job, and very much looking forward to it it's not much
but it will get me away from hell for a few hours, I want him gone
sooooo bad, he's not working and spends all my money, to make sure that
I can't leave, I am a good woman I know this for sure.
I even raised his children, only not to be appreciated, alot of his
friends say he's lucky to have me, and he brags...that yeah he is, I
know I am not beautiful, but I am inside, I quess what I am trying to
say is, I thought this site would be my safe haven, but it's making me
sad and even more lonely.

don't worry it just takes a little time
eventually you are gonna be like
I am never going to be able to answer all of these letters

Welcome by the way

welcome to jsh--and have some fun meetin' people

hey noden nice to meet ya hope u have a great weekend chin up it's gonna
get better, look you ran across everyone here and no body growled or
anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

{{{{{Noden}}}}}

Welcome, I tried to email you.......blocked

Cheer up you will soon get the hang of this place, it can be daunting at
first when you join an on-line dating site,but it gets good, and this
place is the best one I have seen ( says a veteran of 4 months of
on-line dating sites)

BTW..watch out for the one they call SheNerd she will have you in
stitches

would have sent email blocked out cause I'm older than dirt just my luck

hiya bonnie--hadn't seen ya in awhile--how's thing going?--

Morning {{{{shadow}}}}

Fine and dandy mate, fine and dandy. I'm all cited about coming over to
the US of A, I took a break from here for a wee while to make plans for
my trip. How are things with you ?

oohhh---purty good--just chillin'--and gettin' ready to see my mom who's
in town--can't wait for the home-cooked meal--

Ahh, the home cooked meal, my lad moved in with his dad last year ( aged
22) he still brings his laundry home to me and comes here for his
dinners, guess mum's cooking rawkkks ?


Give regards to mums, it's good to see you going to see yours.



BTW Folks, did anyone remember it's Father's day tomorrow, or is that
only in the UK?

Don't be a victim...look to the good things you have going for you, a
new job. Many women have been in your situation and have come out
survivors. I know your confidence is at its lowest right now, but you
can have a good life and yes, you can look hot at 50. Haven't you
heard, today's 50 is actually 30...guess that's why it's the younger
guys who approach me...maybe the older guys lack a little confidence
too. Oh, and please don't put so much expectation into any such site...

Welcome, Noden !!!...don't leave, give it a little time. You'll have fun
here, trust me! By the way, loved those jokes you posted last night!!!

Hi, Noden.Welcome to JSH, there are a lot of good people here. Join us
in the forums so we can get toknow youandyou us. P.S. You have an
e-mail

Noden, everyone feels like that when they first join here. There are
many established friendships and that is intimidating. But, just jump in
and enjoy the ride. You'll feel like a thread killer at times, but who
hasn't? Welcome and give everyone a chance. We're good people for the
most part. My name is Marie and send me a line if you want to talk.

It sounds like you need to get out of there, baby. That situation does
not seem cool. Your life seems so stressed over this, and there is so
much more to life, baby. You can turn your life around. Just get
positive.

Passion, how do ?

Thank you Bonnymiss,for the insperation, deeply noted.....and OMG are
you a beautiful woman if you don't mind me saying so, I am pleased to
meet you tried to mail you but you are also blocked,can I add you as a
friend dear bonnymiss?
I've had alot of responses to my post and catching up on them can be
something ideed like Shadow said how I wonder why so many of you care. I
have never experienced this before. Wishing you well...write
anytime. and hug.

{{{{{{{{Noden}}}}}}}}]

YW sweet lady, Ty for the compliment too, course you can add me as a
friend,I salute you for wanting to get out of your situation.You will
find that the members on this site do care about and for each other, if
only they know how much they have helped me. I have met my soul mate
here but you know sometinng ? I still think I will stay here for as long
as they will have me.This is the place to be.Once again,
welcome.

Grrrrrrl you are 50??? With that body????? If I wasnt a chick looking
for a man!!!!



Don't ever worry about what you say.....Im sure I p*ss off a lot of
people!!!! The good ones always come back...the bad ones I flush down
the toilet!!!