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Topic: so im probably screwed right?
Tessa02's photo
Sat 04/03/10 09:56 PM




It's been proven, that there are more people single while having all the technology available than in the age when there was none of it.


So tru. drinker Government has killed the economy and technology has killed the breeding. :laughing:


It's the new era of safer sex!!!rofl

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 04/03/10 09:57 PM





It's been proven, that there are more people single while having all the technology available than in the age when there was none of it.


So tru. drinker Government has killed the economy and technology has killed the breeding. :laughing:


It's the new era of safer sex!!!rofl


Watching paid actors doing it on a DVD?

duff65's photo
Sat 04/03/10 10:00 PM





It's been proven, that there are more people single while having all the technology available than in the age when there was none of it.


So tru. drinker Government has killed the economy and technology has killed the breeding. :laughing:


It's the new era of safer sex!!!rofl

rofl laugh rofl

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 09:16 PM

I had women literally "falling in love" in text messages and then breaking up with me , without ever hearing my voice or seeing me in real life.

That's why I hate cell phones and doubt the effectiveness of emails or anything that is written by printed letters. (A hand written letter can show more emotions than digital text). Throughout the whole drama, I had this face ---> spock

It's been proven, that there are more people single while having all the technology available than in the age when there was none of it.


I've got a friend doing that right now and I get to hear all of the drama with his girlfriend, her family and her ex. Makes me want to shoot myself, especially since they've known each other all of 2 weeks or some such nonsense and they haven't even met yet. Ugg!

I can definitely agree with you on the person to person vs online, texting etc., which is why I don't do major serious things like that. But dropping a quickie text shouldn't be an issue, unless there's a mistake, and for me, that's rare.

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 09:18 PM



So the other side of the coin with guys like me is "If they cut you, never let 'em see you bleed."


-Kerry O.


Been on that side of the coin too. whoa

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 09:19 PM

:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.

Tessa02's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:09 PM
Have you two talked since? Hope it works out for you!! If he's mad then maybe he wasn't the guy for you after all!!:smile:

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:11 PM


:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.


Okay, Equus, I need a little info here. I'm sorry if I'm slow and I can't read tea-leaves, but did you call him, at all, and how much? Did you e-mail him, Twitter, or Facebook him? These are additional avenues you could have taken to make contact with him rather than waiting for a text reply. Or you could just stake out his house and wait for him to come out. laugh

Sorry, I couldn't resist. The last sentence was a tease, but the rest was serious. happy

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:12 PM

Have you two talked since? Hope it works out for you!! If he's mad then maybe he wasn't the guy for you after all!!:smile:


Nope. He's avoiding me. ohwell Such is life.

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:15 PM



:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.


Okay, Equus, I need a little info here. I'm sorry if I'm slow and I can't read tea-leaves, but did you call him, at all, and how much? Did you e-mail him, Twitter, or Facebook him? These are additional avenues you could have taken to make contact with him rather than waiting for a text reply. Or you could just stake out his house and wait for him to come out. laugh

Sorry, I couldn't resist. The last sentence was a tease, but the rest was serious. happy


LOL! No, not into the stalking thing, thank you! :tongue:

I did text him later in the evening about actually calling him, (he works at the hospital, so I know they can have screwy times) and later this evening as well. He's avoided me totally.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:22 PM




:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.


Okay, Equus, I need a little info here. I'm sorry if I'm slow and I can't read tea-leaves, but did you call him, at all, and how much? Did you e-mail him, Twitter, or Facebook him? These are additional avenues you could have taken to make contact with him rather than waiting for a text reply. Or you could just stake out his house and wait for him to come out. laugh

Sorry, I couldn't resist. The last sentence was a tease, but the rest was serious. happy


LOL! No, not into the stalking thing, thank you! :tongue:

I did text him later in the evening about actually calling him, (he works at the hospital, so I know they can have screwy times) and later this evening as well. He's avoided me totally.


Okay, it would seem you have two choices here: Ready?

1) you can either accept the fact that he's "avoiding" you, like you say, and in that case, in advocacy to you, this dude is probably not worth pursuing anymore.

2) maybe you don't like unsolved mysteries, and you would at least like some sort of formal closure and truth from him, and at least for him to man-up and call you (or text you) back and tell you the truth about when and if he's gonna see you again, and I dunno is not good enough. Now you only have a little time here, I wouldn't be too patient about this. So either call him until he answers you, or let it go after tomorrow or at least this week.

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:27 PM





:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.


Okay, Equus, I need a little info here. I'm sorry if I'm slow and I can't read tea-leaves, but did you call him, at all, and how much? Did you e-mail him, Twitter, or Facebook him? These are additional avenues you could have taken to make contact with him rather than waiting for a text reply. Or you could just stake out his house and wait for him to come out. laugh

Sorry, I couldn't resist. The last sentence was a tease, but the rest was serious. happy


LOL! No, not into the stalking thing, thank you! :tongue:

I did text him later in the evening about actually calling him, (he works at the hospital, so I know they can have screwy times) and later this evening as well. He's avoided me totally.


Okay, it would seem you have two choices here: Ready?

1) you can either accept the fact that he's "avoiding" you, like you say, and in that case, in advocacy to you, this dude is probably not worth pursuing anymore.

2) maybe you don't like unsolved mysteries, and you would at least like some sort of formal closure and truth from him, and at least for him to man-up and call you (or text you) back and tell you the truth about when and if he's gonna see you again, and I dunno is not good enough. Now you only have a little time here, I wouldn't be too patient about this. So either call him until he answers you, or let it go after tomorrow or at least this week.


I'm going with 1! I have no interest in the bullchit games, and if he can't even respond to a simple text, then it really isn't worth it.

Tessa02's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:31 PM




:wink: Tell him when you see him again? That You were telling your friend,,,,ABOUT ANOTHER GUY,,,not HIM!!!noway laugh laugh

THAT IS,,,,,,,,"IF", you feel HE WAS OFFENDED about what you had told your friend,,,,THEY ALWAYS TELL "ME" THAT..

slaphead whoa And I BELIEVE THEM!!!!rofl rofl laugh


Terry, that falls under the bullchit games that I don't play. :tongue: I have no problems admitting to screwups.


Okay, Equus, I need a little info here. I'm sorry if I'm slow and I can't read tea-leaves, but did you call him, at all, and how much? Did you e-mail him, Twitter, or Facebook him? These are additional avenues you could have taken to make contact with him rather than waiting for a text reply. Or you could just stake out his house and wait for him to come out. laugh

Sorry, I couldn't resist. The last sentence was a tease, but the rest was serious. happy


LOL! No, not into the stalking thing, thank you! :tongue:

I did text him later in the evening about actually calling him, (he works at the hospital, so I know they can have screwy times) and later this evening as well. He's avoided me totally.


That really sucks!! I'm sorry he doesn't want to talk after the text. If he's that into himself then maybe its best you found out now instead of later. ((((EquusDancer))))

no photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:35 PM
He sounds immature. If I were you, I'd chalk it up to his loss and move on. If he's going to act this stupid over something as trivial as a misdirected text, imagine his reaction to something major over time.

no photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:39 PM

He sounds immature. If I were you, I'd chalk it up to his loss and move on. If he's going to act this stupid over something as trivial as a misdirected text, imagine his reaction to something major over time.



(Like the new pic :smile: )


Ditto. You deserve at least a "I don't want to pursue anything
more", but if he's not mature to give you that common courtesy,
forget him.



no photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:40 PM


He sounds immature. If I were you, I'd chalk it up to his loss and move on. If he's going to act this stupid over something as trivial as a misdirected text, imagine his reaction to something major over time.



(Like the new pic :smile: )


Ditto. You deserve at least a "I don't want to pursue anything
more", but if he's not mature to give you that common courtesy,
forget him.





Thanks.flowerforyou

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 10:42 PM
Thanks everyone!

It's appreciated! flowers

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:02 PM

Thanks everyone!

It's appreciated! flowers


No prob, Equus. This particular truth hurts because I guess, once upon a time, you "were" interested in this dude. But it seems he turned out to be a dill-weed and he's better left forgotten as a waste of your precious time and he basically disrespected youexplode . You deserve so much better than guys like that. flowerforyou

Tessa02's photo
Mon 04/05/10 12:55 PM
Edited by Tessa02 on Mon 04/05/10 12:57 PM
OMG!! You are not going to believe this one!! Some guy emails me today wanting to meet up tonight. He's traveling through the area. Now, I've already made plans to meet someone else tomorrow morning that I've met before. I just sent a message to the guy wanting to meet tonight!!! I meant to send it to the other guy!! We must be two of a kind!!!slaphead rofl

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Mon 04/05/10 02:02 PM

OMG!! You are not going to believe this one!! Some guy emails me today wanting to meet up tonight. He's traveling through the area. Now, I've already made plans to meet someone else tomorrow morning that I've met before. I just sent a message to the guy wanting to meet tonight!!! I meant to send it to the other guy!! We must be two of a kind!!!slaphead rofl


Oops! I hope it works out, Tess.

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