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and I need ot get back into the dating scene but to be honest im not sure there is guys out there can handle mean im wierd and quircky and very silly how do I get past this fear of guys and start opening myself up
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 Post nude pics???
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slow down
it takes a certain amount of time after a divorce. That is one of the most traumatic and life changing vents in a person's life when the student is ready the teacher will appear or something like that |
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Edited by
LewisW123
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Fri 04/02/10 08:36 AM
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and I need ot get back into the dating scene but to be honest im not sure there is guys out there can handle mean im wierd and quircky and very silly how do I get past this fear of guys and start opening myself up Just club one over the head and drag him home. O.K., I was being a smarta$$. Quietman was right about the time needed after a divorce. Some guys like "weird, quirky, and silly." The right one will find you. |
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first off ignore that pansie with the big ears..
find a guy that can be your freind no sex involved just hang out do things when u feel like it. |
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that's some really good advice I would love ot have a guy as a friend and have tried but they always want sex and when I don't go there they don't hang out as much
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Edited by
LewisW123
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Fri 04/02/10 08:45 AM
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that's some really good advice I would love ot have a guy as a friend and have tried but they always want sex and when I don't go there they don't hang out as much Those guys obviously did not want to be "just friends." Do you want to build a relationship, by starting out as friends first? Or do you really just want a guy as a friend? There are a lot of guys that would be fine with starting out as just friends, (no sex) but eventually, if the goal is to build a relationship, sex is naturally going to be a part of that. I guess it's all in what you think of as a reasonable time-table. |
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Fri 04/02/10 08:45 AM
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that's some really good advice I would love ot have a guy as a friend and have tried but they always want sex and when I don't go there they don't hang out as much in that case they didn't have much potential as a friend since they really just wanted to use you for sex tell em all that you are a lezzybean and that way they wont have expectations and you can weed out the good guys from the players |
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Jump in and hope you don't drown. Learn to kick, hard.
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hahaha if I tell them im a lesbian they might come after me harder. hahah im all for building a relationship but the want sex like right away
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hahaha if I tell them im a lesbian they might come after me harder. hahah im all for building a relationship but the want sex like right away Need to find a different crowd. The environment you find a date in matters just as much as the date, not saying you go to some seedy underground bar and jump to the nearest guy...but take it into account if you ever find yourself at a seedy underground bar. |
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ahh I have no time for bars sometimes i wish I did i kinda miss going out haha
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T u need sombody like me
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ahh I have no time for bars sometimes i wish I did i kinda miss going out haha Well, it was just an example. Change up where you find dates, or how you find dates...maybe that first bit of dialogue is screwing it up, the introduction even. Change, it sucks, but it helps if what you are doing isn't working. |
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T u need sombody like me
Point proven. |
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girls i met so far just want all my m$$ey
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i have found the economy has lashed out and created a new breed of lazy chicks..ones that do not want to work or take advantage of guys who worked and saved there whole life.
i know i will get fraged for posting that so wait on replies until i get my vest on. 
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money!!! well why didnt you say so .... hehehehe
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See...dialogue is important when deciding to date someone...
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hahaha if I tell them im a lesbian they might come after me harder. hahah im all for building a relationship but the want sex like right away Right away, as in the first few dates? Or first few weeks? Fearandloathing is probably right. You need a different way of meeting guys, in order to find different type of guys, than what you are finding right now. A change of venue. |
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