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Could be afraid your going to Chang-hi him into the navy :-)) To me if you set time, keep it. If your afraid then do not go looking or making promises Too many are online looking but when you finally going to meet the fear factor comes into play and the word "should I or how far do I go" on a first date Me I say have sex first, then go out to dinner, dancing, for your more relaxed or you kill the date at that point. for you know if you can stand the person or not. Actually when you first meet you should know,if you are not scard of the truth If I shang-hi a man; it certainly won't be join the navy. I can think of more pleasant things to do with a man. 
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Could be afraid your going to Chang-hi him into the navy :-)) To me if you set time, keep it. If your afraid then do not go looking or making promises Too many are online looking but when you finally going to meet the fear factor comes into play and the word "should I or how far do I go" on a first date Me I say have sex first, then go out to dinner, dancing, for your more relaxed or you kill the date at that point. for you know if you can stand the person or not. Actually when you first meet you should know,if you are not scard of the truth If I shang-hi a man; it certainly won't be join the navy. I can think of more pleasant things to do with a man.        lol |
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Could be afraid your going to Chang-hi him into the navy :-)) To me if you set time, keep it. If your afraid then do not go looking or making promises Too many are online looking but when you finally going to meet the fear factor comes into play and the word "should I or how far do I go" on a first date Me I say have sex first, then go out to dinner, dancing, for your more relaxed or you kill the date at that point. for you know if you can stand the person or not. Actually when you first meet you should know,if you are not scard of the truth If I shang-hi a man; it certainly won't be join the navy. I can think of more pleasant things to do with a man. Are you trying to tell me something?  lol |
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Edited by
Tessa02
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Thu 04/01/10 08:38 PM
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Dang, I replied earlier but half my post are lagging tonight & I'm losing them. Guess I'd better start hitting the C&P!! If his reason for not meeting seemed legit I'd give him another chance. I've met 2 men from another website in the past 4-6 weeks. If I say I'll meet someone I do unless something comes up I can't prevent.
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 omg thank you!! and i thought that i was the only one that happened to! i appreciate your thread! now i don't feel so bad 2 outta 3... well i don't know what to tell you.. but I've decided to take some more time on myself.. i don't get too excited out of someone "saying " they want to meet me.. nor do i take it too seriously.. oh and its happened to me elsewhere as well, the 2 of 3 were on here..had a 1 of 3 elsewhere..so i guess its 50/50 overall.. not really too good of odds if you ask me. and like you i feel they are games.. i just don't have time for others wasting my time.. I'm more deserving than that.. good luck to them is what i feel on their online fantasies lol!! i just laugh an move on. I'm glad they weren't my problem!! Yeah I agree with your last statment that I should be glad they are not my problem. LOL. I just couldn't figure what was going on. One guy called me and emailed for days then cancelled out first meeting twice. I do suspect now that he has met someone better than me which actually does make sense. Oh well such is life. Cheers hummm better than you? i doubt that... maybe he went for the "easy" route.... at least he canceled!! ive had some not bother to even do that. honestly.. i had the same thing figured as you.. and i had good reason, i didnt bother to ask.. not worth my time and im thankful they found someone even if for one night just like them.. i say   and good luck.. i wish them happiness lol!! cause i dont want that kind of stuff!  passssss ty have a nice life and ty ty ty again!
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I am not sure how this ritual is supposed to work so maybe someone could enlighten me. A man is interested in me, he contacts me. We communicate and I am interested in him too. He says lets meet but keeps canceling the date so I figure he has lost interest and wish him well. Then he contacts me and is even more interested but by then I tell him to take a hike as don't need the games. Now if this was an isolated incident; I wouldn't give it a second thought; however this seems to be the norm. So, is this how this ritual is supposed to go? Are there just a lot of game players? I don't date alot personally so did I miss something? Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. Sweet Lord. People just can't say, "You know what. I don't wanna meet because talking online/text/phone/morse code is sooooo in these days. Plus, I get to fantasize about you while watching Wheel of Fortune and eating cereal." I mean....are we such an obsessed cyber world that physical contact (non sexual) is soooooooo out of date? Appears so. So yeah....I guess this is normal. Sad as that is to say. |
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I am not sure how this ritual is supposed to work so maybe someone could enlighten me. A man is interested in me, he contacts me. We communicate and I am interested in him too. He says lets meet but keeps canceling the date so I figure he has lost interest and wish him well. Then he contacts me and is even more interested but by then I tell him to take a hike as don't need the games. Now if this was an isolated incident; I wouldn't give it a second thought; however this seems to be the norm. So, is this how this ritual is supposed to go? Are there just a lot of game players? I don't date alot personally so did I miss something? Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. Sweet Lord. People just can't say, "You know what. I don't wanna meet because talking online/text/phone/morse code is sooooo in these days. Plus, I get to fantasize about you while watching Wheel of Fortune and eating cereal." I mean....are we such an obsessed cyber world that physical contact (non sexual) is soooooooo out of date? Appears so. So yeah....I guess this is normal. Sad as that is to say. Well thanks for cheering me up. Actually its all good; just as long as I haven't wasted my time waiting for these idiots; its cool. I can do better anyways. Cheers. 
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Dang, I replied earlier but half my post are lagging tonight & I'm losing them. Guess I'd better start hitting the C&P!! If his reason for not meeting seemed legit I'd give him another chance. I've met 2 men from another website in the past 4-6 weeks. If I say I'll meet someone I do unless something comes up I can't prevent. Well this one guy's reasons are legit; however I felt like this one in particular is just playing me and really don't have the time for it. When a guy cancels twice, you get the idea he is not really interested which puzzled me as he emailed me for days and even called me on the phone. Oh well, not going to worry about that and just keep my options open for someone who is more sincere. |
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I am not sure how this ritual is supposed to work so maybe someone could enlighten me. A man is interested in me, he contacts me. We communicate and I am interested in him too. He says lets meet but keeps canceling the date so I figure he has lost interest and wish him well. Then he contacts me and is even more interested but by then I tell him to take a hike as don't need the games. Now if this was an isolated incident; I wouldn't give it a second thought; however this seems to be the norm. So, is this how this ritual is supposed to go? Are there just a lot of game players? I don't date alot personally so did I miss something? Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. Sweet Lord. People just can't say, "You know what. I don't wanna meet because talking online/text/phone/morse code is sooooo in these days. Plus, I get to fantasize about you while watching Wheel of Fortune and eating cereal." I mean....are we such an obsessed cyber world that physical contact (non sexual) is soooooooo out of date? Appears so. So yeah....I guess this is normal. Sad as that is to say. Well thanks for cheering me up. Actually its all good; just as long as I haven't wasted my time waiting for these idiots; its cool. I can do better anyways. Cheers. Totally missed my humor there, but ok. Whatever works for ya.  |
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I am not sure how this ritual is supposed to work so maybe someone could enlighten me. A man is interested in me, he contacts me. We communicate and I am interested in him too. He says lets meet but keeps canceling the date so I figure he has lost interest and wish him well. Then he contacts me and is even more interested but by then I tell him to take a hike as don't need the games. Now if this was an isolated incident; I wouldn't give it a second thought; however this seems to be the norm. So, is this how this ritual is supposed to go? Are there just a lot of game players? I don't date alot personally so did I miss something? Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. Sweet Lord. People just can't say, "You know what. I don't wanna meet because talking online/text/phone/morse code is sooooo in these days. Plus, I get to fantasize about you while watching Wheel of Fortune and eating cereal." I mean....are we such an obsessed cyber world that physical contact (non sexual) is soooooooo out of date? Appears so. So yeah....I guess this is normal. Sad as that is to say. Well thanks for cheering me up. Actually its all good; just as long as I haven't wasted my time waiting for these idiots; its cool. I can do better anyways. Cheers. Totally missed my humor there, but ok. Whatever works for ya. Yeah; I guess I did miss your sense of humour but I am thinking there might be a certain amount of truth in what you said. Anyway; he tried again today and I told him to shove off. |
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