I have a boyfriend that is selfish which he admits, i treat him like a king. I pick and choose my battles wisely.He has a sharp tongue at times, we have been dating for a year and i can say it could be better.
my problem is that he don't treat me like i treat him at all.This has been brought up many of times, he tells me why he don't give 50% is he is in his little world or he's in his bubble...cause he is depressed by the way are sex life sucks.

U admit u can do better-maybe it is time to prove it.

sound's like you have your answer.....

i'm available....

be one with the force

Yep!

Sounds like he's not attempting to make anything better, so why should you have to put in the effort when he doesnt? I've been in this situation before and I know it sucks to give up on something you're personally worked so hard for but you need to do yourself a favor and be rid of him.

If he REALLY wants to find a way to make it work he will step up to try and win you back.

i'm available....

personally i've found the only thing worse than being in a crappy relationship, is staying in a crappy relationship. you deserve better hottie!

she's right

Since you BOTH have already talked about the problems and still no fix,,,its time to figure out what YOU WANT,,,verses WHAT your GETTING, and DO YOU want to settle for THAT,,out of the love you feel for him?
OR,find a man who LOVES you back,,the way you love him?
as for me,,,I will NOT settle again,,,if THAT means I die single,,,,wink, Good Luck.

Intimate encounter time

this is how some people keep other people around. treat them like crap and they constantly try to win the person's affection.



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I have no opinion, but I just got out of prison and I love the way there are chicks here who are maybe available, if they are lucky.

The Cuban crisis is one of the last international diplomatic victories for the US that earned them respect the right way, the way respect is supposed to be urned.

So go that way, young lady, if I may give you advice, as useless as it may turn out: When he puts in the missile, tell him to withdraw it; and then shoot one of the Kennedies with one gun, from three angles at once.

so true.. Myka is correct as well.. If you don't value yourself no one else will.. You have to decide to accept that his behavior is unaccptable... He'll learn a lesson and you'll stop accepting men who don't deserve you..

and i'm available....

personally I have found that when they are not making you feel sexy or special at all then you are not really wanting to put out that extra effort sexually if the problems have been there long enoung that you have been talking about them for a while and it has only been a year then it will probably not be something that is going to last at a year you should still be honeymooning it you shouldnt be having this many problems I dont think anyways just thinking long run

Nicely said summer

Every person in this world is worthy of our love, but few are deserving of it.

Seems like you will be caught up in a vicious circle. Only been together for a year and he has already stopped trying to a degree. Another thing is that if he is using sex as an excuse, he is an incredibly selfish guy. Even if he admits it, you are going to have an uphill struggle if you think he is just going to change. People, well most people are creatures of habbit and to change that habbit requires a lot of self knowledge and effort to change things. If he is in fact as selfish as he admits and appears to be, this could be the beginning of the end. I find that at most times we already know the answers to the questions we ask, but we do not always want to believe the answers which we dont want to see.