Topic: Looking for a new you for the new me.
amamin's photo
Fri 03/26/10 08:12 AM
I just moved back home after a long stay in the UK. It's been so long since I have been in the states I don't have much for social connections anymore. I'm recently divorced and glad to be done with the whole mess of the past few years. My problem is how do you meet people who dont see divorced and assume I did something wrong!

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Fri 03/26/10 08:44 AM
Just becuz ur divorced does not mean u did something wrong.My ex-husband fooled everyone around me as well as myself.He acted like he was prince charming until we got married and bought a house together.Turns out he was a very mean abusive alcoholic.He did horrible things to myself as well as my daughter.Getting out was the greatest thing I ever did. I find that most guys I meet will ask why I am divorced and once I tell them in a short version why, they have no problem with it.If a guy did have a problem with it,then it is their problem,not mine.

bastet126's photo
Fri 03/26/10 08:48 AM
start off by saying your single and over time and conversation the truth comes out.

welcome and good luck!

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Fri 03/26/10 08:51 AM


marsbar's photo
Fri 03/26/10 09:07 AM
waving flowerforyou WELCOME:banana:

Etrain's photo
Fri 03/26/10 09:08 AM
:banana: Intimate encounter is the way to go:banana:

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Fri 03/26/10 09:33 AM

My problem is how do you meet people who dont see divorced and assume I did something wrong!


I'm divorced, and I'll admit I did something wrong....

I got married!

Oh well, nobody's perfect.

Welcome to the site, and I hope you'll enjoy it as much as I do!

shades

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Fri 03/26/10 09:35 AM

I just moved back home after a long stay in the UK. It's been so long since I have been in the states I don't have much for social connections anymore. I'm recently divorced and glad to be done with the whole mess of the past few years. My problem is how do you meet people who dont see divorced and assume I did something wrong!


Why even worry about it? There are two sides to everything except boxes which have six sides! Ya can't learn to swim if you are afraid to get your feet wet. You have taken your first step on your new journey!drinker

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Fri 03/26/10 12:17 PM

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:18 PM
Join in the forums and meet people


Duffy's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:20 PM
pitchfork welcome. divorced and did something wrong. NOPE...ur single, divorced, and did something right. u r moving on.

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Fri 03/26/10 07:09 PM

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Fri 03/26/10 07:33 PM
Welcome! waving

heartbreaker123's photo
Fri 03/26/10 09:02 PM

:banana: Intimate encounter is the way to go:banana:
flowerforyou welcome and this is really a great site and a lot of great folk's here.and yes even thisdevil he's really a teddy bear and a great guy:angel: winking