and here I am trying to find me a MAN, and I get messages from babies. what is it about us old women , that make these young guys think we
would play with them? most of us women, aren't cougars although the young ones think we would leap at the chance to bed them and support them , has anyone else out there had this problem? if so how doYOU deal with them.lo

sharon

i find it complimentary ~ and while it's fun to flirt, i let it be known i'm not jumping into anything, regardless of age.

I have the same problem with women. Most of them I just delete but once in a while I feel like playing with them then dumping hard on them.

Live and learn.

I don't take things too seriously here.

It's nice to make a few friends and chat once in awhile....not too sure about getting 'involved' with anyone on here.....many just like to mess with your head.

Whatever.

Nade

Bebbygrrl, us old dudes get the same kinda come-ons from the young 30-ish 'hardbody hotties' ... yeah, sure, they got the looks that'll make an old man young and a young man weep, but hey, babygirl, Homey ain't your banker and ain't about bankrolling the lifestyle you wanna live, no matter how perky them li'l breastses may be (they ain't gonna win forever in the fight against gravity) ... So just take it with a grain of salt, grin and pat 'em on the head, and realize they're doin' their damnedest to avoid finding real work.They're lookin' for people they can 'play' to support 'em - they'll be gone in a flash when the money runs out, anyway ...

Um...no, I don't have "stupid" across my forehead.

no younguns ever hit on me

Sometimes I think the message on my forehead reads "weirdo's welcome".

story of MY life
Yea, get the young ones IM all the time, just click no. Sometimes, if mail, ask what could they possibly want with someone old enough to be their grandmother? Never get a reply to that one..

Although I'm not 'romantically' interested in younger men, I've gotten e-mails in the past from a few and enjoyed a friendly correspondence with them for a time. I try not to assume anything about folks I've encountered here and try not to take anything too personally. Might have been one or two who initially thought I'd be an 'easy mark'. It was actually fun to interact with them here and see respect and friendship grow from that. Kinda nice actually.

Wine, women & cheese, all improve with age.

I find that true, quite often.

yes me too, but I just did the same thing and he came back on now he is talking romance and , just wont take no for answer and he is kinda of a turn on if you get my meaning lol , he isnt that much younger then me either, but it is no play day at the park when they are 20 ormore yrs younger , i have to block them instead of talk them lol .

I had one yesterday that was half my age inviting me to come visit him. I wrote back saying that I thought he had the wrong person since I was twice his age. He emailed me back saying no he meant to send it to me and thought I was Hot. Thanked him and told him I was not a cougar! I think he needs glasses!

I don't have stupid across any part of my bod thank you...

I get lots of younger men flirting with me

I don't get all pissy

I talk to them

lately I'm finding a little attraction towards them

does that make me stupid???

I don't think so....... Just curious!!!