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60 miles is a breeze to do if you really wanted to do that Yep, 60 miles is nothing, but you've only known him 2 weeks so I'm not sure what the rush is... there is a saying "the best ribs are always cooked with slow and low heat"  In other words, don't pressure him and let the relationship work its way out on its own...
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60 miles is a breeze to do if you really wanted to do that Yep, 60 miles is nothing, but you've only known him 2 weeks so I'm not sure what the rush is... there is a saying "the best ribs are always cooked with slow and low heat" In other words, don't pressure him and let the relationship work its way out on its own...  ribs
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60 miles is a breeze to do if you really wanted to do that Yep, 60 miles is nothing, but you've only known him 2 weeks so I'm not sure what the rush is... there is a saying "the best ribs are always cooked with slow and low heat" In other words, don't pressure him and let the relationship work its way out on its own... A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!,,Just my thoughts man.. BEST to be SAFE and AWARE, than to wish and compare....lol |
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow...
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Edited by
michiganman3
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Sat 03/06/10 03:55 PM
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I would drive 60 miles for some good ribs.
But I wouldn't drive around the block for something this fishy. He's not 'computer literate' because someone found the last emails...........jmho. |
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But I wouldn't drive around the block for something this fishy. People were playing games and lying to one another long before the Internet came along... you could meet someone down the street from where you're at and they could still be into playing head games... just say'in
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I need some help please....your thoughts on this situation.... I've met a man. An attractive, smart, witty, funny and educated man. I know all of this because we have been talking on the phone for 2 weeks now. He's not that computer literate and couldn't get the "chat" thing down, so phone numbers were exchanged. Here is the probleml...everytime I call him, the phone rings until voice mail, then he will call me back 15 minutes or so later....also, I can't get him during the day, and I can only talk to him in the evening, but never after 10. Now, I know what your'e thinking, he's married, or in a committed relationship, and probably sneaking away to talk to me. Actually, we haven't met in person yet, we have not exchanged addresses. I suggested we try to get together for lunch, he was evasive, he lives 60 miles away from me, and he says "if it's meant to be, we will find a way to overcome the distance".... Well, I guess I answered my own queries. It does feel good to get it out though. Very disappointing. Who can you trust??? That's happened to me twice, the first time he was married, the second time, I'm still not sure, I guess he was just an ******* who screened his calls and only wanted to talk to me at his own convenience. As for who you can trust, the answer to that is simple- yourself. You can't control anyone else and you can't make anyone love or even like you. 60 miles isn't far to meet for lunch if he was willing, I had a guy drive close to 70 miles to spend time with me, because he wanted to. Chalk him up to another lying, worthless, cowardly, selfish jerk and try to move on. 
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But I wouldn't drive around the block for something this fishy. People were playing games and lying to one another long before the Internet came along... you could meet someone down the street from where you're at and they could still be into playing head games... just say'in Agreed...........internet is just another tool. People haven't changed much. |
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you know, being alone is such a terrible void...I just wish that it was what I thought it was. It felt so good to have someone pay attention. To ask if you got home from work ok, ask about your day...I guess it had more impact on me than I'd care to admit, but I'm not giving up. I know that someone out there is truly a kind and caring soul and meant just for me. I guess I was naive. That's ok too. I wouldn't change who I am. It took me years to accept myself. Now to find that great guy, not perfect by any means, but perfect for me. God, I need a good joke right about now....
goodnite. |
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Bottom line you can only trust someone that is honest...I wonder how honest this guy is really being with you. Also, I feel that he is not ready for a serious committed relationship. Hope things work out for you and you find that special someone
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maybe he is a pimp ????
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you know, being alone is such a terrible void...I just wish that it was what I thought it was. It felt so good to have someone pay attention. To ask if you got home from work ok, ask about your day...I guess it had more impact on me than I'd care to admit, but I'm not giving up. I know that someone out there is truly a kind and caring soul and meant just for me. I guess I was naive. That's ok too. I wouldn't change who I am. It took me years to accept myself. Now to find that great guy, not perfect by any means, but perfect for me. God, I need a good joke right about now.... goodnite. Well, Raincoat is definitely not perfect...well, err, Poncho anyway. He bought a bottle of water from a Mexican because the Mexican told him it was the best water in Mexico...yeah, not all that bright. Get some good sleep, you need it.
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow... Only a little over three years on THIS site..and from all who I have taken the time to TRY and know. MANY are NOT the person THEY portray themselves to be on HERE. Many attached,,,but say therir NOT, many older much older than their pic's they act as their looks NOW. Many who only PLAY a game with men to SEE if they bite their ego's. And many I HAVE NO IDEA AS TO WHAT THEY ARE except double-talkers of their truths.. SO,,,because of so many LIVING THIS WAY...it is MUCH better for ME. to NOT believe until they show me that THEIR REAL...wink. I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT BOTHERED ME AND HAVE PROOF TO ANYONE WHO THINKS I AM NOT ALL OF WHO I SAY I AM... With no issues in THEM making sure I am real before wanting to even see an interest in me..THATS JUST A REAL LIFE HONESTY! I know a woman who gave up all she had to MOVE 3000 miles to just be played and used,another who gave monies and her home away for the sake of being with a FAKE MAN. And THOSE are this sites TRUTHS and MANY more BAD things,,, Just because THEY LET THEM SELVES BELIEVE IN LIES.. 
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow... Only a little over three years on THIS site..and from all who I have taken the time to TRY and know. MANY are NOT the person THEY portray themselves to be on HERE. Many attached,,,but say therir NOT, many older much older than their pic's they act as their looks NOW. Many who only PLAY a game with men to SEE if they bite their ego's. And many I HAVE NO IDEA AS TO WHAT THEY ARE except double-talkers of their truths.. SO,,,because of so many LIVING THIS WAY...it is MUCH better for ME. to NOT believe until they show me that THEIR REAL...wink. I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT BOTHERED ME AND HAVE PROOF TO ANYONE WHO THINKS I AM NOT ALL OF WHO I SAY I AM... With no issues in THEM making sure I am real before wanting to even see an interest in me..THATS JUST A REAL LIFE HONESTY! I know a woman who gave up all she had to MOVE 3000 miles to just be played and used,another who gave monies and her home away for the sake of being with a FAKE MAN. And THOSE are this sites TRUTHS and MANY more BAD things,,, Just because THEY LET THEM SELVES BELIEVE IN LIES..  ......................... All these damn games  .............. I'd rather be single the rest of my life than put up with this bull-ish................ |
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow... I totally agree - anyone who is rushing you is only after a fling. |
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God, I need a good joke right about now.... What did the grape say to the elephant, when the elephant stepped on him? Nothing, he just let out a little whine (wine)..... 
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow... Well, as to MY assumption's.? I'm a newbee on the Net. Only a little over three years on THIS site..and from all who I have taken the time to TRY and know. MANY are NOT the person THEY portray themselves to be on HERE. Many attached,,,but say therir NOT, many older much older than their pic's they act as their looks NOW. Many who only PLAY a game with men to SEE if they bite their ego's. And many I HAVE NO IDEA AS TO WHAT THEY ARE except double-talkers of their truths.. SO,,,because of so many LIVING THIS WAY...it is MUCH better for ME. to NOT believe until they show me that THEIR REAL...wink. I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT BOTHERED ME AND HAVE PROOF TO ANYONE WHO THINKS I AM NOT ALL OF WHO I SAY I AM... With no issues in THEM making sure I am real before wanting to even see an interest in me..THATS JUST A REAL LIFE HONESTY! I know a woman who gave up all she had to MOVE 3000 miles to just be played and used,another who gave monies and her home away for the sake of being with a FAKE MAN. And THOSE are this sites TRUTHS and MANY more BAD things,,, Just because THEY LET THEM SELVES BELIEVE IN LIES.. im not a newbie on the internet..ive been on other dating sites too and i can say that everything you wrote IS the God`s Honest Truth. ive seen it happen to others,and ive been on the victims end of it. i was niave,heck i am still niave,just way more jaded and supershy as far as approaching any women now. so,your post really strikes a chord here. so does Marys last post there. i can only wish the Best for you and mary,and the rest of us poor souls as well. |
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God, I need a good joke right about now.... What did the grape say to the elephant, when the elephant stepped on him? Nothing, he just let out a little whine (wine)..... 
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A heart is a terrible thing to waste, on time given and dreams dreamed to find out LATER,,you were played!, ...not sure why everyone assumes that everyone else on the net is out just to play games.... maybe that's why some people like to take things slow... Well, as to MY assumption's.? I'm a newbee on the Net. Only a little over three years on THIS site..and from all who I have taken the time to TRY and know. MANY are NOT the person THEY portray themselves to be on HERE. Many attached,,,but say therir NOT, many older much older than their pic's they act as their looks NOW. Many who only PLAY a game with men to SEE if they bite their ego's. And many I HAVE NO IDEA AS TO WHAT THEY ARE except double-talkers of their truths.. SO,,,because of so many LIVING THIS WAY...it is MUCH better for ME. to NOT believe until they show me that THEIR REAL...wink. I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT BOTHERED ME AND HAVE PROOF TO ANYONE WHO THINKS I AM NOT ALL OF WHO I SAY I AM... With no issues in THEM making sure I am real before wanting to even see an interest in me..THATS JUST A REAL LIFE HONESTY! I know a woman who gave up all she had to MOVE 3000 miles to just be played and used,another who gave monies and her home away for the sake of being with a FAKE MAN. And THOSE are this sites TRUTHS and MANY more BAD things,,, Just because THEY LET THEM SELVES BELIEVE IN LIES.. im not a newbie on the internet..ive been on other dating sites too and i can say that everything you wrote IS the God`s Honest Truth. ive seen it happen to others,and ive been on the victims end of it. i was niave,heck i am still niave,just way more jaded and supershy as far as approaching any women now. so,your post really strikes a chord here. so does Marys last post there. i can only wish the Best for you and mary,and the rest of us poor souls as well. MANY are as I am,,real people and all that they say they are. But to just come-in and on here THINKING WE ARE ALL NORMAL TRUST WORTHY PEOPLE,,,,,,NO FREAKIN WAY!!!!! Many people and friends of mine have found love in each other and married from hear as well,,,so its very possible to find a REAL PERSON,,,but its THAT few who believe so easy that get sooooooo hurt by them.....I am sorry you went through this... 
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