I can totally understand where she's coming from, and honestly, I'm in the same boat. I would love someone in my life who gets me and understands just what I'm going through, but unfortunately in my locale, people just seem to be about what they can get for them, not about the heart or the important matters of it.

To you, Silver, I can say this: Find what makes you happy first. When you do, ultimately, you'll find that one person that will make you happy. Things tend to fall in place when you try to make it for yourself.

What I will also say to couple that is DON'T COMPROMISE OR PLAY GAMES EITHER!! Do what makes you happy, but don't dance around a subject when the direct approach is best. I myself am a blunt person and will tell someone whether or not I like them or not. You don't have to be mean about it, but be stern. There is a difference.

Let love happen to you don't look too hard. And sometimes you need to re-evaluate what you are doing and the type of men you are attracting and why.