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This is all just so forking wrong !
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Seriously though, been cheated on several times, the only one I gave a second chance to was my kid's father...begged, pleaded, and swore he learned his lesson. Took him back and...yup...did it again. NEVER again. My second cheated. But we got past it and I do not believe she ever broke that promise. So it is possible as far as I'm concerned. But it does take some serious convincing. |
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Seriously though, been cheated on several times, the only one I gave a second chance to was my kid's father...begged, pleaded, and swore he learned his lesson. Took him back and...yup...did it again. NEVER again. yeah....I know some take them back. I don't think I could ever get the image out of my head to take him back...but that's just me |
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Is there something in the forking water tonight or what? Nope...nothing in the water...it's a full-moon tonight! A night that all the utensils come out, I guess! |
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Well, it took a long time, but we became just good friends so I
figured I would give it another chance for the kids...stupid me, but, live and learn. You pick yourself up, dust yourself off, pick a few daisies and move on. (and quietly plot your revenge , j/k) |
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I gave someone a second chance once but it wasn't the same
We split after that ... now it's a deal breaker No second chances or second thoughts |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that !
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I gave someone a second chance once but it wasn't the same We split after that ... now it's a deal breaker No second chances or second thoughts Ditto. Once the betrayal is done and the trust is gone, it's over. |
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I gave someone a second chance once but it wasn't the same We split after that ... now it's a deal breaker No second chances or second thoughts Ditto. Once the betrayal is done and the trust is gone, it's over. Yes indeed |
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That reminds me of the old saying:
First time, shame on you... Second time shame on me... I don't think anyone that cheats on their other, should EVER have that 2nd chance! If they didn't love you enough before it happened...then what makes you think they would love more! Don't make sense... JMO-If I still have one |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. By the same token, I would never tell anyone they should try and make it work. Just sayin' it can and did for me. But it is by no means easy. |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. But if you gave another chance, it would never be the same again... I guess that is why I have 2 divorces under my belt...I don't give 2nd's either. It's not worth the pain! JMO-If I still have one |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. we all have our own reasons. I wouldn't tell anyone they were wrong for trying. You did what you needed to do. and I appreciate you explaining it to me. |
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Did'nt say it was easy Kim A lot of hard work but then I believed in my vows better and worse and all that Bs. But where are we if we do'nt believe in something ,so I tried would have worked if other truths did'nt come out plus the second affair .Sad part is she came from a broken family in the first place figured she woulda learned from that ! oh sunshine....not saying you were wrong to do that. Just saying I don't understand it. we all do what we need to do. I understand someone wanting to make it work. I just could never get past it to begin with. But if you gave another chance, it would never be the same again... Nothing every stays the same, but it can be good again. |
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You are welcome as usual. Sorry I probably come off as a little strong on some of theses subjects But I am passionate about them !
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You are welcome as usual. Sorry I probably come off as a little strong on some of theses subjects But I am passionate about them ! not at all. now come fork with us in the fork thread |
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I'm not forking crazy !
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Done, nothing he could say or do would excuse it, or erase it from my mind...so wouldn't even care to listen to a rhyme or reason.
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