A co=worker of mine wanted me to meet her brother. We started texting each other, yet whenever I asked about meeting for a drink he never followed through. Lately we have been emailing each other, he came in to the store on Sunday and was hanging around the area I work in, even though he didn't approach me,, I didn't know what he looked like and didn't figure out until later it was him. I sent him an email asking if it was him and if I would have said something to him if he would have talked to me. He said yes to both. I have heard he has been burnt a few times. I once again asked about meeting for dinner or a drink,,he has yet to reply. question is do I forget about him or try a different approach? Personaly I think he is too afraid to put his heart on the line again.

Sounds familiar, he kinda lost his "mojo", but also possible that he changed his mind. Or both..lost his mojo and changed his mind.

If you've shown interest in him and he's not taking you up on it, I'd let it go, because he doesn't seem to return your interest. Whether or not he's been burned in the past is irrelevant, most people have, but they choose to move on or wallow in it. I wouldn't chase him if I were you, if he wants to get together, he knows how to ask.

Let it go, there's a reason for the change of mind...

find out from his sister, where he lives. Then go round and break in, find his bedroom and get dressed in ALL his clothes.

then hide in his wardrobe and wait for him to come home.

if you paint your face like a creepy clown, he wont be able to resist you.

I've tried this and it didn't work. He ran out screaming like a girl but I did get a great pair of boxers.

I agree with Leighanna, if he want to take you up on it, he knows how to ask. The more you push the further they run.

Yep!!! You shouldn't have to chase or beg anyone to go out with you.. If you ask once and he says no then I wouldn't bother again.. I'd lose the number and move on...

He is too unsure of anything, and that includes you.
He's not ready for dating or a relationship.


NEXT

don't waste your time. When it's me asking and he does not follow through without a reasonable explanation I move on. That simple.

His loss not yours. Don't waste your time.

i like where this is going

Don't encourage them....

does he have multiple personalities?

eh, maybe...just read more of his posts and decide on your own..

Ok who stole my imaginary friend? Fess up!!

Read 'He's Just Not That Into You'... it might explain a lot!

or maybe try asking for something other than going for a drink, meeting with a group of friends in were it takes away the pressure.