Sadly, some people would want to be married to yonder woman on yonder poster in the background... with no regard to anything beyond looks. Morons... .....

Hell, I'd marry her and I'm not even a lesbian. She has great legs.....

I think we all have run into the type of people you talked about. I have made some real good friends and some real close friends. Apperance is not what I pay attention to as friends go. But, I do to an extent in being interested in someone. I think it's how you carry yourself and a lot of the time, a persons attitude. I have met people that have a lot of tatts, a few piercings and are very loving people. Looks does not make a person and I think some people think OMG! they have tatts, piercings this means there all F...up and not worth talking to. These type of people are the ones that need to open there eyes.

And here you are picky about men being intelligent and attractive!
Well, I guess we guys just need to start having really sexy legs?

LOVE long hair.
LOVE tatts.
LOVE jewelry on others.
I think men are absolutely drawn to looks first.
I call it eye-dick coordination.
One pings and the other pongs.
Nothing wrong with that unless they stop there.
Women also play ping pong.
But we pretend it is character first :-)

It is true, first impressions are more of a factor then most want to admit. Being on the net is much harder for some.

When I first joined a dating site, one of the first emails I got was somone saying because of the way my pic's looked. That I was lying about my age. Never met this person till that email. So how do they know what kind of life I live or anything to assume what they don't know. I'm sure others have other stories, but pic's stick out more then anythign else.

But we pretend it's character first

To late, the leg thing has been done already

All those things you listed are a turn off to me. So I wouldn't find them attractive.

I was in a chat room and some guy said women don't care about looks. I informed him he was sadly mistaken. I actually think looks don't matter so much to men seeing as there are quite a few men that will f@ck anything with a hole.

Yeah, I wonder where that rumor came from too, about women not caring about looks. I don't do ugly, no matter how "nice" the guy thinks he is. And you're right, lots of men will bang anything, ewwwww.....

everybody knows that the bird is the word

If a man is ugly and stupid, his legs are irrelevant.

bald bikers are sexy also.

Looks are just the first of many layers of a person, but if there is not too much underneath that then my interest will fade quickly. The examples given can all be changed easily but a personality can't.

Long hair or short hair doesn't bother me. Ditto with say goatees and a mustache. Beards, especially those who get into wild and wolly instead of neat instantly turn me off.

Tats, done tastefully I like. Naked ladies tats don't do it for me.

Jewelry, mmm, don't care for it on a guy. Makes me think their wishing they were women. I've never even been a big one for the heavier chains around the neck, much less earrings.

Healthy and in decent shape, without going bodybuilder overboard. Beer bellies, man boobs, and pregnant men don't rate a second glance.

Bikers in leather, yummy, men in kilts (with good legs) yummier yet.

And really, with all that there has to be something to talk about. A brain is the biggest turn-on.

<<<Would you date this guy? C'mon ladies, he has a great personality and umm *cough* a big wallet!



On a more serious note. I am pretty open minded when it comes to dating. I like short hair, long hair, tattoos, no tattoos, piercings, no piercings, stocky, not stocky...you get the idea. I do like a goatee on a man, but not a necessity. I think there has to be an attraction for everyone, it just varies on what one's idea of what attraction is. My main turn on is a sense of humor. You can be sexy as he11, but if there's no funny it's a turn off.

Yes, it varies person to person.

For me.....I am shallow...I like women who put an effort into being hot. Don't get me wrong...I have done some truly scurvvy dogs in my time....no apologies for it. but, if I am going to devote my time and attentions to someone to try to make her my one and only piece of @ss...it ain't gonna be the dumpy bird in front of me at Wal-mart with sweats, no make up and too damned lazy to run a brush through her hair before piling that rats nest into a half-assd ponytail.