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Topic: Lawyers...
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Sun 02/14/10 09:28 AM
Edited by iam4u on Sun 02/14/10 09:46 AM
It really ALL boils down to how the JUDGE See's your son's BEST placement and care, and still if HE is fair to both.
As SOME favor mother's rights over any dad's rights to their growing
only in their care and home..
Oldsage is right about his friends out-come as I have had the same with my friends.
If SHE is granted custody, there always is the chance later to save the money up for a good attorney as if her life style is BAD FOR YOUR SON, you can gain custody later down the line through another
hearing over whats best for him to be around and living and growing in?
And THAT attorney can see to it that ALL informations to MAKE THAT HAPPENS is able to be SHOWN to that new Judge then...drinker

Just as long as NOW this Judge grants YOU proper visitations with him, that is NOT LIMITED to where you both call HOME.

If you both live a great distance apart, it should be based on
joint custody as her for six months and you that other six months.

If your both close to each others homes, it should be at LEAST,
every other weekend that you have him for two days.

The details also needs attention, as who drives where to make that transaction happen...like meeting in the middle of the distance, or if its over-looked in the agreements..
YOU might have all the responsibility of doing that whole drive every other week,,both ways..Sometimes THATS very important as to just HOW MUCH QUALITY TIME you have to SHARE with him..
Where her HELPING that by doing SOME of the drive,,gives your son and you MORE time to spend,,relaxed with him..

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Sun 02/14/10 09:30 AM



dont do what I did

my ex wife's son has Down Syndrome. He is about thirty now going on six.

for his sake I signed EVERYTHING over to her. the house and all the assets

these kids need continuity and security in their lives and I didnt have the heart to disrupt his life any more than the divorce already did

and then she stuck me with ALL the debts

now I kinda wish I had forced her to sell the house and split it. Somtimes taking the high road is morally right but you suffer the consequences for it


Been there, got the sweatshirt.
Had it to do over, would still do the same.
I did those things for me, not them.


yeah and I agree

I just wish that *I* had some of that money now hahaha


Understand THAT feeling.

The PRICE of living with "INTEGRITY".

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Sun 02/14/10 09:39 AM
Right now it seems to look good for me at this point. I have a clean record, I'n not into drugs nor do I drink a lot. I have a stable home. D,C,F,S is involved and she stands loseing both kids right now. She doesn't have a clean record. Her life revolves around drunks and drug addicts. People that are in domestic violence relationships,and the list goes on. So part of me is saying that I might have a good chance of having more of the custody, but then there is the other part that says. Don't hope on that.


So will see what happens.

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Sun 02/14/10 09:51 AM
perhaps you can have him subpoenaed to court for your hearing?

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Sun 02/14/10 09:56 AM

perhaps you can have him subpoenaed to court for your hearing?


He says he will be there for the next hering, but if not, I will sue him.

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Sun 02/14/10 10:11 AM

perhaps you can have him subpoenaed to court for your hearing?
I believe that no attorney can represent a client if brought to do so under duress!
But YOU can file a petition against his mis-handling your trial dates with the board that granted him his license!

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Mon 02/15/10 07:17 PM
One lawyer will always make money for another.

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