just called the police on me and alledged that I assaulted him, Because I asked him to be quiet. He lives off my grandmother and does nothing but drink and sleep all day. He has no job nor does he pay child support for either one of his kids. The cop said if I didn't go outside and appoligize to him and we make peace that they would take both of us to jail for aggravated assualt/family violence. He was drunk as **** on the phone talking **** about everyone in the house, even my grandmother who takes care of his stupid ***. I wish that there was a dumb fu@k pound where you could take all the unwanted dumb fu@ks and if no one came and claimed them they would be put to sleep. ( But I did punch him in the jaw after he talked enough ****.) oops...

I think the dumb fu@k pound would fill up fast

you are lucky that you weren't arrested. Especially if you had been smoking

i know, the cop was actually very nice.

Well that would explain the assault part....

Belligerent drunks give everybody that just want to catch a buzz a bad name.

I can't think of a family including my own, that doesn't have a member who everyone else is fed up with for one reason or another!

Now here's a topic I know. I have grown up in a family of achololics and been in relationships with a few so this is something I have lived. After years of trying to help, control and change, I found that the best and hardest thing to do is NOTHING. If what they are doing or saying is too much for you, go somewhere else, even for an hour. The only way they will ever get help to change themselves is if they hit their bottom. And when otheres are always "helping" them they never will. If you would like to message me I can let you know where some support groups are near you for you and your family.