Topic: relationships
faithful69's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:01 PM
what the hell r u suppose to do if the person u love is always trying to
show off knowin he doesnt need to impress u anymore?

daleray1606's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:09 PM


I'm not sure I understand your statement...

thedoctor's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:11 PM
maybe he doesn't know that....so, he's still tryin' to impress you.

daleray1606's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:15 PM



Good one Doc... I bet you're right.

adj4u's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:16 PM
sounds like he may have a self esteem problem

but hey what do i know

transientmind's photo
Mon 06/11/07 10:26 PM
Adj4u has a point, maybe he feels he doesn't measure up.

...Or maybe that's his idea of keeping the spark in the relationship, it
depends on the person. I'd say let him know what he SHOULD do,
especially if he's putting himself or others in danger.

megforhire's photo
Wed 06/13/07 03:46 AM
I have had this problem . It can be really annoying . Some/alot of men
are like that all the time . Thats just what they do show off . Maybe
you should tell him he doesnt have to impress you anymore . That might
backfire on you though . Just let him do it if he isnt putting himself
or others in danger and accept it as part of his personality . ohwell
If it is really annoying perhaps he isnt the one for you . Or maybe you
arent showing him enough that your impressed by him ?

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 06/13/07 06:33 AM
faithful....

It's known as the MALE ego

If I were you...I would tell him how you fell, to me comminication in a
relationship is key. He obviously can't read your mind....so just tell
him

Stephycats's photo
Wed 06/13/07 06:40 AM
Yes you should just tell him how you feel. maybe he wants to impress you
afraid that if he doesnt youll loose interest in him.

unsure's photo
Wed 06/13/07 06:49 AM
Honestly, thats just some peoples personality also!! I had a boyfriend
like that ONCE....I thought he would get over it, come to find out, he
was just a show-off! Its a very annoying trait.

oldsage's photo
Wed 06/13/07 07:16 AM
Could just be age & not experienced in how to act.