Topic: just wondering
fun670's photo
Sun 01/31/10 09:29 PM
are the people on here for real or am i just so unappealing no one is interested in me?? honesty is appreciated. i know i am not the prettiest crayon in the box, but i am honest, sincere,sensual and very affectionate. people you send messages to on this website never answer or respond. i'm disappointed. i've pulled my profile 2 times already for lack of correspondance. not sure what to think and not sure about whether i should even continue on here or not..sorry. but this is what i feel. i mean even ugly girls usually get some kind of response......

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/31/10 09:33 PM
Hi and welcome.. Try the forums.. You'll meet a lot of people in the forums...

Peccy's photo
Sun 01/31/10 09:44 PM
you need to come out into the forums, get to know people

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Sun 01/31/10 10:14 PM
Some are real, some are fake, some are liars, some are crazy, when you choose to try to date online, you're setting yourself up for anything. Don't just depend on this, keep looking in the real world, you might have better results. Good luck.flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 01/31/10 11:02 PM
There's ALOT of everything here!

I learned from experience

one really bad one inparticular

to just be careful

let your voice be heard by being yourself

and in time...

You might not find love

but you'll make freinds!

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 01/31/10 11:31 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 01/31/10 11:32 PM

Hi and welcome.. Try the forums.. You'll meet a lot of people in the forums...


Hi flowerforyou

You are not ugly!

As Joy said, get in the forums and meet people. The forums are where all the "real" people are on Mingle. I have made some amazing friends here (Joy at the top of the list with Calleigh too!!!) I love my girlie friends from Mingle!

Have fun! :banana:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/31/10 11:38 PM
We love you too Melody... flowers

buttons's photo
Mon 02/01/10 12:01 AM
hello and welcome here.. some people are like that not everyone though... i dont much go email strangers anymore... i had the same luck u did.. i guess i did not have the courage to continue... i think i did 3 and no response.. people do email me though usually from the forums.. and i go days without any mail.. so dont feel left out.. it happens to everyone:wink: just have some funflowerforyou

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Mon 02/01/10 08:16 AM
Welcome flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 02/01/10 11:21 AM

people you send messages to on this website never answer or respond.


That was my experience, too....until I started posting in the forums and people got to know me. I get lots of e-mail here now! It's all about the exposure....


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Mon 02/01/10 02:39 PM
First of all, You are NOT ugly!

I've read all the other posts above and they all have great advice. The forums are lots of fun and you do meet some great people here. Also, be patient. I've been on another "online dating site" before, and like this one, it seems to be either "feast of famine". One week you'll receive 20+ emails, the next week only 1 or 2. You may or may not meet "the one" here, but you will certainly meet and chat with some really great people. So have FUN!

Best of luck to you! flowerforyou