im getting some chapped lips too! from guys in the 20's that i did not view i viewed 40-50 yrs lol well 31 of them.. then 29 that i dont know from the forums

i have 4 now.. nothing like seein a match with a monster i should of left holly there

You know I want you !

I've been operating under the assumption that mods are unpickable -- or unmatchable, or something....!

these sites are not social networking sites...and we are prohibited to give contact info on any profile... I got tired of getting hustled by dating sited. "SO and SO sent you a flirt" but you gotta pay 75 bucks to read it...its a crock!

end rant

While this is listed as a dating site, many use it for friends, as well. emailing and sending nudges (as well as reading the emails and seeing the nudges) are free, so are the forums and IMs. As far as the contact info, it's for your benefit to not have it listed.

ok...im mistaken, this site i can actually see the emails..lol sorry... I just signed up a few days ago... :)

agreed..most of the dating sites are completely bogus and ripping you off.
their so called matches,turn out to be either fakes or long since gone people.

and the supposed matches are nothing like what your preferences are,and its plainly obvious all they want is your money.

if you dont believe me,just enter the name of your favorite or a dating site you are thinking about joining--> into Google,along with,is this a scam? and watch what happens.
example..is Eharmony a scam?

this site is actually low-key,( advertising ) but has real people,who post and relate very well.

and,putting contact info anywheres on the Net,is just asking for the spammaholics to descend en-mass on you.

i used to put my info on craigslist when i sell a car or truck,but no longer.
they even called my phone to spam me.
just my .02

wait a minute here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i know this site is nothing fake about it!! yes.. the people really are here! however some have fake attitudes. when u pick a match here.. u are picking a real person... sometimes the ones that pick you may as well be fake.. cause they dont even contact you... thats all i was getting at........ ive been on those other sites before... and this is one that i call REAL..i want to clarify that!! i did not mean this whatsoever at all!! i love this site! it can work if both parties are honest... and sincere.. and all for free!.. i have watched this place grow from what month 4? i have learned what happens when new situations have arrisen.. and what happens when a place grows soooo fast! i have seen some quirks... and i have to say this... i have other places as well and i have never seen.. anyone!!!!!!!!!!! fix them so fast! nor have i seen anyplace listen... to concerns, and ways to improve it... and seen many of these things happen as well.. i have my utmost respect for this place.. and have learned a lot here.. have i found a mate nooo.. and i havent really tried.. i did have a date though.. i really never in the past used this place for that..i have found many friends though... i just wanted to clarify that...

I think this is a better picture of you in your profile pictures. Just my opinion:

i agree..a lot of your pics are dark and hard to see.
excellent picture there.

its an older pic. humm oct of last yr.. thanks.. took it myself.. the one i have up i did not lol.. but it is the most recent dec of 09
i do have the issue of not being photogentic lol it takes 30 pics to get one that looks like me.. i guess oct is not that old so i will change it... thanks for letting me know.. debra