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I am starting to realize that long distance relationships are near impossible if the person you are "with" lol is completely content there without you.
 
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Yeah, that can't be good.....
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Dont do them.
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I am stupid i know and it will never work.
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Some people have successful long distance relationships, but it takes commitment and dedication from both sides. If both parties aren't 100% invested, it won't work, same as in "the real world;" lack of commitment = waste of time.
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Yeah, if someone is content with not being with you...hummmm
I guess he's just not that into ya, as the saying goes. |
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true i drove 900 miles for this man, And he shows no signs of doing the same for me and he hardly calls. At this point i am going to take everyones elses advice and date someone i can see, spend time with make memories with lol to me that is a relationship. I do care about him but i just cant do any more than i have.
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Some people have successful long distance relationships, but it takes commitment and dedication from both sides. If both parties aren't 100% invested, it won't work, same as in "the real world;" lack of commitment = waste of time. 
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true i drove 900 miles for this man, And he shows no signs of doing the same for me and he hardly calls. At this point i am going to take everyones elses advice and date someone i can see, spend time with make memories with lol to me that is a relationship. I do care about him but i just cant do any more than i have. I think you know what you gotta do. |
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true i drove 900 miles for this man, And he shows no signs of doing the same for me and he hardly calls. At this point i am going to take everyones elses advice and date someone i can see, spend time with make memories with lol to me that is a relationship. I do care about him but i just cant do any more than i have. If he's not willing to do his share, and from the sounds of it, he's not, there's no need to stay with him. It'd be the same thing if he lived in your city and never called, never showed up, always had a stupid excuse, etc. Ignoring someone or taking them for granted is a sure way to end a relationship. |
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I am starting to realize that long distance relationships are near impossible if the person you are "with" lol is completely content there without you.
It sounds like he enjoys the illusion of being in a relationship. He has to invest nothing!!! I could not handle this!! |
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ty haha i jsut needed to vent this has been going on for about 6 months he is also divorced and has two kids and me being 19 and no kids it would be awkward. I want a family of my own someday i dont want to feel like i am intruding in on someone elses. But yes since i came back home i have been fruststated mainly because of all the effort i have made and havent got any back.
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I am starting to realize that long distance relationships are near impossible if the person you are "with" lol is completely content there without you.
It sounds like he enjoys the illusion of being in a relationship. He has to invest nothing!!! I could not handle this!! so much truth to this statement... |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 01/25/10 09:30 PM
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That would suck. I'm sorry.
I feel so fortunate that my SO is job searching in California. We have active plans for relocation within the year. For now, twice a month flights back and forth from Florida to Cali is what keeps us motivated. I wish you well. 
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wow nice lol and thank you i just have been upset over it becuse i honestly did want it to work but of course it's just a way too complicated situation only time will tell how serious he is and if not move on
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you're too young and pretty to settle... Take a chance at starting your own life with someone who actually gives a damn... just sayin
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wow nice lol and thank you i just have been upset over it becuse i honestly did want it to work but of course it's just a way too complicated situation only time will tell how serious he is and if not move on I was concerned about the same situation when things turned serious for us. I wondered if he would step up the LDR. He assuaged my concerns by buying the first three trips to see me in advance. I met him half way on the expense and bought three trips too. I knew he was genuine and I feel confident. For it to work he needs to bring an equal but grand gesture to the table too. |
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wow nice lol and thank you i just have been upset over it becuse i honestly did want it to work but of course it's just a way too complicated situation only time will tell how serious he is and if not move on I was concerned about the same situation when things turned serious for us. I wondered if he would step up the LDR. He assuaged my concerns by buying the first three trips to see me in advance. I met him half way on the expense and bought three trips too. I knew he was genuine and I feel confident. For it to work he needs to bring an equal but grand gesture to the table too. Very nice Melody... I decided the same thing and well let's just say he wasn't sincere... It is what it is... |
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wow nice lol and thank you i just have been upset over it becuse i honestly did want it to work but of course it's just a way too complicated situation only time will tell how serious he is and if not move on I was concerned about the same situation when things turned serious for us. I wondered if he would step up the LDR. He assuaged my concerns by buying the first three trips to see me in advance. I met him half way on the expense and bought three trips too. I knew he was genuine and I feel confident. For it to work he needs to bring an equal but grand gesture to the table too. Very nice Melody... I decided the same thing and well let's just say he wasn't sincere... It is what it is... I should say that I am confident but I have eyes wide OPEN! 
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