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Topic: Group date???
Zack931's photo
Wed 01/20/10 09:36 AM
so advice for group dates: Just relax. Dont stress yourself out. Have fun, laugh hardy and have a good time. If she doesnt want a second date oh well her loss right? At least you had a good time.

And if she does, then great. You dont have to pretend to be anything you're not and you SHOULDN'T pretend to be anything you're not, either. If you portray a lie, you either have to live that lie or admit you were full of crap, either way the truth comes out eventually and starting anything based off a lie is never a good way to build trust.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 01/20/10 09:40 AM
*note to self* Guys and girls who group date are way to young/immature to be dating. winking

Zack931's photo
Wed 01/20/10 09:41 AM
it has nothing to do with maturity, mom. ;)

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 01/20/10 09:51 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 01/20/10 09:52 AM

it has nothing to do with maturity, mom. ;)


Um, I know you aren't talking to me! I am not a breeder nor do I care to be a "mom" to anyone. :angry:

I simply said I would never date a guy that isn't confident enough to date me without being around a bunch of friends like a fieldtrip. I date YOUNG guys too but not one of them has ever said "group date". I'd have to laugh at him and hang up! laugh

It is about maturity and confidence. slaphead

wiley's photo
Wed 01/20/10 10:15 AM
Edited by wiley on Wed 01/20/10 10:16 AM
I have no problem with a group date. As long as the group consists of solely members of the opposite sex and I can hit on all of them freely. Sort of like speed dating but without the competition.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 01/20/10 10:16 AM

I have no problem with a group date. As long as the group consists of solely members of the opposite sex and I can hit on all of them freely. Sort of like speed dating but without the competition.


Now THIS is a good idea!! :thumbsup:

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 11:13 AM
Can I bring my stuffed animals or do I have to leave them at home? And who's going to change my Pull Up?huh

willing2's photo
Wed 01/20/10 11:33 AM
A group date will only be successful if everyone is nekkid.:banana: :banana:

RicanMamisita's photo
Wed 01/20/10 11:33 AM
I HATE group dates!!!!!!!!!!!!

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 11:51 AM
I've never been on one, but it sounds weird.....

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 01/20/10 12:15 PM
Does going to a Lakers game count as a group date? I think Staples Center holds about 20,000 people.laugh

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 12:16 PM
Would make more sense just to throw a party, at least you know what you're getting into and it doesn't seem like a kindergarten outing.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 01/20/10 01:27 PM

I've never been on one, but it sounds weird.....


More unnerving than anything...nothing like being packed into a small pub with at least 2 people you don't have any particular interest in just to get to that one person that you are actually interested in. Figuratively speaking, "It is a minefield out there, run through as quick as you can".

There is enough pressure for most dates anyway, let alone to also go on a date with all of your "childhood" friends. Once again, that is probably why I didn't last with any of the ex's that thought that was a bright idea...I'm not here to impress anyone, either you like me or you don't like me.smokin

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Wed 01/20/10 01:28 PM


I've never been on one, but it sounds weird.....


More unnerving than anything...nothing like being packed into a small pub with at least 2 people you don't have any particular interest in just to get to that one person that you are actually interested in. Figuratively speaking, "It is a minefield out there, run through as quick as you can".

There is enough pressure for most dates anyway, let alone to also go on a date with all of your "childhood" friends. Once again, that is probably why I didn't last with any of the ex's that thought that was a bright idea...I'm not here to impress anyone, either you like me or you don't like me.smokin


I like you.tongue2

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 01/20/10 01:30 PM



I've never been on one, but it sounds weird.....


More unnerving than anything...nothing like being packed into a small pub with at least 2 people you don't have any particular interest in just to get to that one person that you are actually interested in. Figuratively speaking, "It is a minefield out there, run through as quick as you can".

There is enough pressure for most dates anyway, let alone to also go on a date with all of your "childhood" friends. Once again, that is probably why I didn't last with any of the ex's that thought that was a bright idea...I'm not here to impress anyone, either you like me or you don't like me.smokin


I like you.tongue2


I know, I like you too.tongue2

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