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Topic: heart break
Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 12/27/09 06:36 PM
playboy magazines

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 12/27/09 06:38 PM
Alcohol.

dnc4Him Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 2035	Sun 12/27/09 06:39 PM
Time...spent looking forward, not backward.

LewisW123 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 2403	Sun 12/27/09 06:43 PM
Prayer. Exercise. Work. Friends.

southern_bee Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 4812	Sun 12/27/09 07:08 PM
for me and talk to a good friend have a hard cry and treat my self to something special

smilie123 Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 3	Sun 12/27/09 07:09 PM
Find closure and forgiveness. Then find someone else.

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Sun 12/27/09 07:17 PM
Start by determining the immediate cause of the heartache. Think about whether the breakup of the relationship was caused by a specific issue. Understanding the catalyst for the heartache leads to healing. Step 2Focus on the present. Reliving the past is not a healthy coping mechanism. It's important to remember the root of the heartache, but don't dwell on events of the past. Step 3Get the proper amount of sleep, so you don't become overly tired. It's far too easy to become exhausted and exhaustion increases the severity of heartache. Step 4Visit a relationship counselor or mental health professional. Heartache can broaden into a general depression. Seeking professional help speeds recovery and helps keep heartache from growing worse. Step 5Take your time entering new relationships. There's no hurry to find another person to date. The new love of your life should come naturally and cannot be forced. ...i looked it up..

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Sun 12/27/09 07:28 PM
Go shopping.

BellaOrchid Joined Sun 11/15/09 Posts: 88	Sun 12/27/09 07:35 PM
another guy/girl lol seriously just embrace the pain ... then let it go and move on with your life!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 12/27/09 07:35 PM
Start by determining the immediate cause of the heartache. Think about whether the breakup of the relationship was caused by a specific issue. Understanding the catalyst for the heartache leads to healing. Step 2Focus on the present. Reliving the past is not a healthy coping mechanism. It's important to remember the root of the heartache, but don't dwell on events of the past. Step 3Get the proper amount of sleep, so you don't become overly tired. It's far too easy to become exhausted and exhaustion increases the severity of heartache. Step 4Visit a relationship counselor or mental health professional. Heartache can broaden into a general depression. Seeking professional help speeds recovery and helps keep heartache from growing worse. Step 5Take your time entering new relationships. There's no hurry to find another person to date. The new love of your life should come naturally and cannot be forced. ...i looked it up.. you cheated

douglas329 Joined Sun 12/27/09 Posts: 3	Sun 12/27/09 07:47 PM
Heartbreak will only go away with time. The more you loved them the longer it will take. Stay busy with activities and friends. If you sleep with someone right away it wasn't true love with the person that hurt you in the first place.

ashley_renee Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 14755	Sun 12/27/09 07:48 PM
The only way to get over someone .. is to get under someone else!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sun 12/27/09 11:50 PM
The only way to get over someone .. is to get under someone else!! So true!

smilingeyes_976 Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 1152	Sun 12/27/09 11:57 PM
It takes time... I write about everything that I am feeling. Especially when I am hurting. Lets ya look back on things after a while and see how far you've come.