hey all
please tell me what i could change about myself surgeys/cosmetics anything to make myself dateable
im about to give up and i just want to know if theres a reason why noone even says hi to me

thanx -Joshua

Joshua,,,how is anyone to even see you,,,let alone speak to you if THEY don't have that chance to know YOUR here????

You need to be seen man,,post a bunch,,about ANYTHING,,,
make up whatever you want to ask us and post it???
Reply to any posts that you want to,,,and do both of these a LOT,,
so others can see you and come to THINK they know you by your words and like you to call ya a friend,,,,so MINGLE DUDE...

Have fun,meet people and be YOU,,,friends just happen here..

You shouldn't change anything about yourself. If someone doesn't like you just the way you are, that's their problem not yours. Join in the forums and meet people. There are a lot of great people on here and the majority of them are friendly. Don't give up dating takes time and it will happen when it's meant to be. Welcome and best of luck to you

thanx i hit alot of people up in mails but they never even reply its the same with every site i am on i have notice this forum has a lil less flame from people who just troll all day and poke fun at everyone
so i might try to be active on these forums but yeah its like that in real life i know and talk to alot of girls and im alwyas a good friend never anything more im the guy they call and talk about all their guy troubles ..i like this guy,should i date him ect.. and every girl i like dates every one of my friends and not me

i may be a little rusty i have only had one girlfriend and that was 7 years ago so i dont have much experiance/luck
i just wish i could have someone to be around and give my feelings to i know i have alot to give i just dont have anything else to offer i dont think i have a decent sized um yeah and i know im not cute or anything and that seems to be what 99% of girls are after
and i just want to know if i should give up and try to destroy the part of me that wants to be next to another soul becaused im doomed to be by myself for my life i thought mabie its beacuse im ugly
wich is why i made this post for a lil bit ofinfo on what i should do
i thought mabie i could get some work done on my nose its odd looking imo lol

You don't need to change yourself for anyone else.

Omg!!!! Your nose!!!! Its hideous!!!! Just kidding bro....post in the forums and you will start getting emails and you might just find the love of your life...ok, probably not the last part

lol

oh and i just realized i posted this int he wrong forum :P i meant to post in gen discussion LOL i thought i was in there sowwies :)

Don't change anything about yourself, listen to the advice given.. However, I would change the part in your profile about wanting someone with the same hours so you could always be together... That might be a little smothering and deep for someone...

Hang in the forums.. Have fun and welcome..

ok thanx
i will change it around a biti just meant it that i would like to be able to mabie talk with or say goodnight or something in person

i have only had one girlfriend from 2001 - 2002 so im not sure what is smothering and what is ok stuff to do

take things day by day and they will work out...

as others have said....be who you are...don't change yourself just for others.

A positive attitude shines through though.

Join in the forums and have fun

yeah i am told that alot but i havnt had much positive in my life im not sure to go about having one lol

Patience is the companion of wisdom