Don't think that just because you have a child means you need a man either. I know single moms that have done spectactular jobs raising their children on their own. You can do it, even if it looks impossible. Worry about your child and yourself.

When the time IS (not FEELS) right, then think long and hard about the type of man you want, and don't settle for anything less. Because, I'm sure you can see what settling will get you.

Don't think that just because you have a child means you need a man either. I know single moms that have done spectactular jobs raising their children on their own. You can do it, even if it looks impossible. Worry about your child and yourself.

When the time IS (not FEELS) right, then think long and hard about the type of man you want, and don't settle for anything less. Because, I'm sure you can see what settling will get you.

OK here goes i have been dating this guy for 6 months ( hes pushing engagement tells everyone we meet we are ) i am 9 months pregnant not his kid helping with kid (father ran) he staying at my house tonight because my mom let him i cant sleep with him because of his snoring and he is like on top of me because i have a twin bed and now im up i said to him are u going to sleep hes like ya not even caring i need sleep ( been up since yesterday 8 am and was in hospital most of Christmas eve) i wanna go to sleep in my bed but cant because i cant stand sleeping in the same bed nor being near him wat do i do

he's with you , but not the father yur lucky to have a guy by yur side .!!!!

How is she lucky to have a unconsiderate guy in her life?


There are plenty of men out there that are considerate and caring that have no problem being with a women with children!

To me, the guy is an @ss! She was just released from the hospital, he should have been sleeping on the floor, so she could rest!

since my mom has a king i may scurry into her room and sleep on the other side of the bed im gonna see about sum type of sleep if not ill be back

This thread is one totally disaster.
Living with mom,having a baby with a run off father,man in her bed she hates,no sleep,ranting on here as if we can really help.Ok sure we can listen.Young lady your baby is the only responsibility you need to get in hand.Get HELP.There are programs and housing you can go to,get your head on straight..i'm sorry truly I am.But all your wrongs are not making it right for this baby your about to have.

my mom is fine with my child and im fine living here so excuse me but there is no problem with me living with my mom with my child

You missed the whole point.Totally!