Any suggestions welcome. I need some ideas!!!

Hi and welcome

I would change your main pic to one of you smiling. Your main now makes you look unhappy and that will never attract a happy woman. You might get a moody girl though! JK!

Add more to your essay. You don't have to write a book, as you allude, but you need to include more information in order to inspire interest. If you say nothing, you will attract nothing. Spice it up! Grad her attention! If you were a girl, would your profile be interesting? Wear the other shoe -- or high heel in this case.

Have fun and happy holidays!