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Topic: When does love end?
YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:14 AM
Edited by YourDaddyDerek on Mon 12/14/09 02:16 AM
I was talking about relationships with some people earlier and this old man looks at me and says,

"You are a young man, but you think you have the world figured out. Let me ask you this, when does love end?"

I am a mouthy, quick witted, sharped tongue guy and i had nothing for an answer. Does real love end???

So i ask you....so i can go back to that old man with a piece of your mind.


"WHEN DOES LOVE END"

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:16 AM
depends on the kind of love. I still love my ex but I'm not IN love with him.

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:19 AM
thats what im thinking....but he seems to have more of an angle with that question..like, can it be true love if it doesnt work out...like you said, what kind of love is it? can it be a general love for someone with a side of attraction??? grrrr....this was seven hours ago and i cant stop thinking about it...imma write a song about that old man

Shasta1's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:19 AM
It doesn't. You move on, yet love never ends.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:23 AM
laugh let it go.

I'm not sure what he was meaning but IMO you can still love someone (care about them) but not be IN love with someone.

Not to mention there are many types of love....family, friends, relationships, etc

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:26 AM

It doesn't. You move on, yet love never ends.



again. i thought of that. but there has to be more...but im liking where you are going with this...hmmm

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:26 AM

laugh let it go.

I'm not sure what he was meaning but IMO you can still love someone (care about them) but not be IN love with someone.

Not to mention there are many types of love....family, friends, relationships, etc



.....i know this sounds crazy but i think god meant for me to talk to him...like i was supposed to get something from him...like an apiphany

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:30 AM
are you having a hard time letting go? feeling maybe guilty in some way about a break up?

Shasta1's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:37 AM


laugh let it go.

I'm not sure what he was meaning but IMO you can still love someone (care about them) but not be IN love with someone.

Not to mention there are many types of love....family, friends, relationships, etc



.....i know this sounds crazy but i think god meant for me to talk to him...like i was supposed to get something from him...like an apiphany

It doesn't sound crazy..you are meant to follow thoughts you are getting, intuition. Always follow what your heart is telling your mind.

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:40 AM

are you having a hard time letting go? feeling maybe guilty in some way about a break up?



i never wanted it to end...but i was workign nights and she was getting messed up while i was at work and she was alone with the kids. i had to do something. since then she has gotten worse....maybe i do feel guilty..like i left her behind in a time of need.....grrrrr

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:41 AM



laugh let it go.

I'm not sure what he was meaning but IMO you can still love someone (care about them) but not be IN love with someone.

Not to mention there are many types of love....family, friends, relationships, etc



.....i know this sounds crazy but i think god meant for me to talk to him...like i was supposed to get something from him...like an apiphany

It doesn't sound crazy..you are meant to follow thoughts you are getting, intuition. Always follow what your heart is telling your mind.



thats the thing..its like one is speaking in charlie brown's teacher talk and the other is speaking spanish...they are communicating well at all lmao

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:47 AM


are you having a hard time letting go? feeling maybe guilty in some way about a break up?



i never wanted it to end...but i was workign nights and she was getting messed up while i was at work and she was alone with the kids. i had to do something. since then she has gotten worse....maybe i do feel guilty..like i left her behind in a time of need.....grrrrr



ahhhhhh that makes sense now. You could be going through a grieving period as well.

BonnyMiss's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:06 AM
Going slightly off the topic here (I think) I have yet to understand the view of some women, the guy goes out to work to provide for his family, yet he gets grief from her. I have friends who complained that their husbands work long hours, yet those same friends want at least two family holidays per year. Having a job these days is a bonus, having a hard working partner is a blessing.

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:21 AM



are you having a hard time letting go? feeling maybe guilty in some way about a break up?



i never wanted it to end...but i was workign nights and she was getting messed up while i was at work and she was alone with the kids. i had to do something. since then she has gotten worse....maybe i do feel guilty..like i left her behind in a time of need.....grrrrr



ahhhhhh that makes sense now. You could be going through a grieving period as well.




its been a year though.....wtf?

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:21 AM

Going slightly off the topic here (I think) I have yet to understand the view of some women, the guy goes out to work to provide for his family, yet he gets grief from her. I have friends who complained that their husbands work long hours, yet those same friends want at least two family holidays per year. Having a job these days is a bonus, having a hard working partner is a blessing.



its off topic but....well said.

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:41 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Mon 12/14/09 03:42 AM
tell that guy that I said love is an emotion. Its something you do. not something you have or hold

love ends when you want it to. or not

like asking when does anger end?

or when does pleasure end?

you can hang on to it if you want and keep doing it

or not

you get to decide

some people are worth loving for ever and some people arent


and, on that subject, love isn't something you do to get something back. real love doesn't depend on the person loving you back.

aladytoo's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:43 AM
Mentally love ends when you have your final good bye.But in your heart love is stored.When you die, your heart will be full of love to carry you on.:heart:

Etrain's photo
Mon 12/14/09 04:08 AM
Real love never dies..if it does it wasn't real:banana: :banana: :banana:

YourDaddyDerek's photo
Mon 12/14/09 04:50 AM

Real love never dies..if it does it wasn't real:banana: :banana: :banana:



the crazy guy poses a good point

Etrain's photo
Mon 12/14/09 04:51 AM


Real love never dies..if it does it wasn't real:banana: :banana: :banana:



the crazy guy poses a good point

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

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