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I am who I am, an accurate representation and I've lost friends because of who I am. I'm not an infactuation, I'm not the cause of your obsession. I don't change and don't plan on wavering who I am in light of who you might be. I lost a friend because of that, and I don't want to lose anymore. So please, don't expect me to change... "Give a f**k about a playa hater Hit 'em wit the tool flush(?) his whole radiator" |
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I am who I am, an accurate representation and I've lost friends because of who I am. I'm not an infactuation, I'm not the cause of your obsession. I don't change and don't plan on wavering who I am in light of who you might be. I lost a friend because of that, and I don't want to lose anymore. So please, don't expect me to change... |
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If your friend expected you to change, he/she wasn't really your friend to begin with. Not really, they just thought I wasn't who I was. I'm really no different in real life than I am here. They were a good friend at one time, things change...people don't. 
Ah...my dear...people do in fact, change. Subtle or drastic. Slowly more often than not. There is a difference tho of wanting to change and life changes. We adapt, listen, learn, grow. A good friend at one time, now not affects you..you think, wonder, say things changed...but things change people. Like your friend. You say things now you wouldn't have said 5 years ago and won't in 10-20-30 years. You become wiser (hopefully) and make decisions that affect your life. A person learns not much is in your control except your life and then you adjust and wait to see what comes. The thing is NOT to be changed by life...not to be hardened or bitter, to maintain your heart and sense of humor, to keep your individuality without being caustic. Someone may say to you when you do this...it affects people like... You'll decide then wheather that behavior needs to be modified or not. The big thing in life- you will discover- is finding your 'true self' and that may take alot, or a little changing. I'm happy with who I am, I'm well past the "growth" of life, I have the thoughts and ideas that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Sure, some things may change. But a lot more things stay the same. |
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas...
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Ummm okay. Thanks for sharing.
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If your friend expected you to change, he/she wasn't really your friend to begin with. Not really, they just thought I wasn't who I was. I'm really no different in real life than I am here. They were a good friend at one time, things change...people don't.
Ah...my dear...people do in fact, change. Subtle or drastic. Slowly more often than not. There is a difference tho of wanting to change and life changes. We adapt, listen, learn, grow. A good friend at one time, now not affects you..you think, wonder, say things changed...but things change people. Like your friend. You say things now you wouldn't have said 5 years ago and won't in 10-20-30 years. You become wiser (hopefully) and make decisions that affect your life. A person learns not much is in your control except your life and then you adjust and wait to see what comes. The thing is NOT to be changed by life...not to be hardened or bitter, to maintain your heart and sense of humor, to keep your individuality without being caustic. Someone may say to you when you do this...it affects people like... You'll decide then wheather that behavior needs to be modified or not. The big thing in life- you will discover- is finding your 'true self' and that may take alot, or a little changing. I'm happy with who I am, I'm well past the "growth" of life, I have the thoughts and ideas that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Sure, some things may change. But a lot more things stay the same. I didn't mean 'you' persay..  .I meant all. Yes, your character is more concrete...but you will be surprised how, lets say your tolerance level may go up or down simply by what life gives you.
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Yes, you said this very well. Life is about growth. |
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If your friend expected you to change, he/she wasn't really your friend to begin with. Not really, they just thought I wasn't who I was. I'm really no different in real life than I am here. They were a good friend at one time, things change...people don't.
Ah...my dear...people do in fact, change. Subtle or drastic. Slowly more often than not. There is a difference tho of wanting to change and life changes. We adapt, listen, learn, grow. A good friend at one time, now not affects you..you think, wonder, say things changed...but things change people. Like your friend. You say things now you wouldn't have said 5 years ago and won't in 10-20-30 years. You become wiser (hopefully) and make decisions that affect your life. A person learns not much is in your control except your life and then you adjust and wait to see what comes. The thing is NOT to be changed by life...not to be hardened or bitter, to maintain your heart and sense of humor, to keep your individuality without being caustic. Someone may say to you when you do this...it affects people like... You'll decide then wheather that behavior needs to be modified or not. The big thing in life- you will discover- is finding your 'true self' and that may take alot, or a little changing. I'm happy with who I am, I'm well past the "growth" of life, I have the thoughts and ideas that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Sure, some things may change. But a lot more things stay the same. I didn't mean 'you' persay.. .I meant all. Yes, your character is more concrete...but you will be surprised how, lets say your tolerance level may go up or down simply by what life gives you.
 I know mine has... 
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 Ahhh...to be young
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B-b-b-b-but ... I make lotsa mistakes ...
... ...Fear!
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Don't go changing to please me...
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Don't go changing to please me...
 ... Don't change the color of your hair ... 
You always have my unspoken passion, although I might not SEEM to care! |
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Don't ever change
You are you.... Without that you are nobody !!! If someone does not like it.... Come on !!!! Do you really care???? Nope!!!!! 
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same. |
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.   
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.
Stop it... 
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.
Stop it...
I don't wanna.... 
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.
Stop it...
I don't wanna....
I so feel like starting up a Mingle gossip column. 
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.
Stop it...
I don't wanna....
I so feel like starting up a Mingle gossip column.
If you do, I'll put you in shackles, and you won't like it. 
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Your concrete beliefs may stay the same but you will change a lot in 5 and 10 yrs... You will look back and think "did I really think that way?" "did I really say that?" So many things we think we know in our 20's, 30's 40's and so on and then we learn, see, experience or just open up to new ideas... Doubtful, but perhaps. I've thought the same for the past ten years, it has been working for me and keeping me happy. Don't see much reason to change if I'm happy the way I am. Physically I'll change, and maybe regret of certain decisions will come with that...but my outlook will pretty much remain the same.
Stop it...
I don't wanna....
I so feel like starting up a Mingle gossip column.
If you do, I'll put you in shackles, and you won't like it.
I'll use the match.
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