Topic: Messed up relations
Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 07:10 AM
Oh I haven't been sucked in. I just found it utterly amazing that two people would put themselves through this. I mean, it is like an episode of Springer that has come to life.laugh laugh

If I was a psych major in college, I would so use this relationship for a thesis paper.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 12/13/09 07:10 AM
Sounds drama/trauma filled...too much for me. But hey, what ever floats your boat, makes your skirt fly up.....

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Sun 12/13/09 07:12 AM

Sounds drama/trauma filled...too much for me. But hey, what ever floats your boat, makes your skirt fly up.....


True enough...and it sounds like lots of skirts are flying up! :tongue:

Enjoy the show, Goof!

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 07:25 AM
I was laughing and their were other people witnessing it too, and they were like, "Why are you laughing? This is sad." I was like, "This is freaking funny". But hey...that's how I roll.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/13/09 07:40 AM
I put up with cheating by my ex husband for almost 10 years. But, that had more to do with trying to make a stable life for my son. I should have left right after the first time but I thought I was making a necessary sacrifice. Turns out I was wrong.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:14 AM
Here is what I find most interesting about this whole situation, and I witnessed this last night too.

1. Both of them have little respect for the other. I mean, that is obvious, especially when she found out, he left for three hours and she was already talking to this other guy who was trying all he could to shag her. You know...the comfort fawk! She didn't do it, but she sure as heck teased it on.

2. He shows back up and all of a sudden, she cares about their relationship. This is when I started to laugn my butt off, because I could not believe what I was witnessing. But he shows up caring as well, as if what he did hours earlier didn't matter. They argued for about an hour, and yes, they shagged and all was well. Uh huh.

3. How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that??????? I seriously wanted to shoot both of them for being idiots of the human race.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:23 AM

How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:29 AM


How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh

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Sun 12/13/09 11:30 AM
One word ... Codependency ...

Together they act out and prolong their disease process, caught up in the cycle!


... If they part and never process the ill-motivations, they WILL continue to transfer the illness into their next relationship, and so on ad infinium.

New faces, same sick game ...

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:31 AM



How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh


Likewise........I mean, a man who's.......oh, you get the idea! :tongue:


IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:35 AM



How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh


It's not about the vjayjay... It's more about the emotional dependency which they've probably confused with love.. I think she was flirting to make herself feel better.. I've seen people do that b/c being cheated on can make one feel like they're not desirable or something is wrong with them. So the attention reaffirmed to her that she was attractive.

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:45 AM
yup

codependent and dysfunctional

the thing is that is exactly what some people crave

I've seen couples like that together 50 years and having drunken ranting issues the whole time and couldn't concieve a life without it

no photo
Sun 12/13/09 11:46 AM

Boy, did I ever see some drama tonight. Basically, this chick I know found out that about three hours ago, her boyfriend was out banging another chick. Okay, so you are all gonna think what I thought right? Dude is history. No way she takes him back right? Well, dude shows up at her place, they have an argument, they make up, next thing I know they shag and are all lovey dovey now? WTF???????noway noway noway
Sounds like they are meant for each other??? I wonder if she is doing this to him as well

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 04:39 PM
They do it to each other. Saw them today, and they are acting like nothing happened. That will change tomorrow when they are at each others throats.laugh

no photo
Sun 12/13/09 04:40 PM
Some people are gluttons for punishment. We pity them, laugh and move on......

no photo
Sun 12/13/09 04:47 PM



How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh


Now that would make a kicka$$ headline!!!rofl

no photo
Sun 12/13/09 05:03 PM

One word ... Codependency ...

Together they act out and prolong their disease process, caught up in the cycle!


... If they part and never process the ill-motivations, they WILL continue to transfer the illness into their next relationship, and so on ad infinium.

New faces, same sick game ...



... Nothin' changes if nothin' changes!

The laws of inertia at work ...

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/13/09 08:22 PM




How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh


Now that would make a kicka$$ headline!!!rofl


Done!!laugh laugh

Updawg's photo
Sun 12/13/09 08:33 PM

sometimes sex blinds people....

Sometimes you just wanna gouge your eyesout afterwardslaugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/13/09 08:39 PM





How on God's green Earth can two people want to live like that???????



The sex is really good?


I have yet to meet a woman who's vagina makes me bow to it.laugh


Now that would make a kicka$$ headline!!!rofl


Done!!laugh laugh


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl You're officially awesome!:thumbsup: