You know, people can lie in person just like they can through emails. I can normally tell when a woman is not being completely honest, or if she just isn't into me, or that she may want to say something but just doesn't want to do it right now. I don't want a woman to just blast out tons of info at me right away. Too much to process. And baggage is something we all have folks. Now, if she is married or is in the process of getting divorced and lied about it (by saying she is single) then she will get the nice "deletion" from Goof's archives.

And another thing. Women (it appears) are more apprehensive in sharing info because alot of times they have been deceived by a dude. Yes, men have it happen to them too, but I don't feel it is as frequent for us as it is for the ladies.

Now, if she wants to get together for a night of lust, then digits, hotel room and accessories are needed.

accessories

Out of all of that, that is the one word you focus on.

seems like it would have to be a case by case evaluation

if you only talked to a person a couple times but found out they only live a couple blocks away then it would be fine to meet for coffee after only a couple of emails

but if they lived 1200 miles away and wanted to meet after a couple it would be kinda presumptive

but then papersmile and I knew after only a couple of emails and started planning a trip for her to fly to Texas

but then of course we are perfect for each other and that doesn't happen very often