I had recently started dating this guy who is completely amazing. He has so many qualities i look for and we have so much fun together. I finally took it to the next level and slept with him but too my shocking surprise he is extremely small down there. Especially too small for me. Trust me there is nothing i could use, change positions, or anything of the sort to make it work down there. I literally dont feel anything. the bedroom chemistry is really important to me (since i can occasionally be a nympho).I need advice on what to do..... this guy is really amazing and i really like him, but i know i probably wont be able to commit long term because of the sex. Is it wrong to continue to date him even though i dont see a long term future? or is it ok that we just date and have fun together (non sexually) while it lasts? take into consideration weve only been dating for 3 weeks. thanks for all ur advice and comments!

See other people? They also make toys for that I hear?

I don't see a problem as long as you are honest with him (I'd leave out the small part) but just let him know you aren't looking for something serious. If he decides he wants something different, then at least he can make his own choice.

Did you discuss your needs with him? He might have some suggestions to spice things up.

Since you desided to already be physical,you never had the time to gain the qualities,of a healthy emontional relationship.
Both being in an emontional relationship, your able to work threw physical needs.Because you have gained trust,communication,new love,and honesty...
Then if you only deside that you can have a relationship based on a mans penis size.Guess you have to move on. You'll never know if he was really that great guy your missing out on.

if you love someone you will accept the person as they are if you already know you are not interested long term be honest don't drag it out

That's why it's best to find how out big it is before you do the deed. Otherwise, you're setting yourself up for massive disappointment- pun intended. If you're not happy with him sexually, just tell him you'd rather be friends. No need staying in a relationship when it's not what you want. Best of luck.

Hard to go back to being "just friends" at this point, because he is going to want to know why.

And telling him it is because his penis is too small, is NOT what he will want to hear.

I suggest a white lie: "An old boyfriend suddenly came back into my life. I really loved him, and now he wants to make things work with me." Then, avoid him.

Or, if you have to see him because of work or something: "I made a mistake, in the heat of the moment. I forgot my parents have already promised me in a pre-arranged marriage."

Anything but: "I'm crazy about you, but your little penis just doesn't do anything for me, so I can never love you."

that reminds me of my friend Bart

he had just the opposite problem

he was BIG and the girls loved him

but he had a terrible lisp

he wath alwath thalkin like thith

so he went to the doctor to get help with his lisp and the doctor said "we can fix that but I'll have to remove 4 inches from your penis"

Bart had his doubts but he agreed to the surgery. It was a success and his lisp was cured

a few months after his recovery he went back to the doctor and explained to him that all his old girlfriends wouldn't go out with him anymore and wondered if he could have his old penis along with the lisp back

the doctor replied "I'm thorry but thath juth not pothible"

However you decide to do it, you need to end it now. Dragging it out will hurt both of you in the long run.

I with I had the thame problem.

perhaps he can use his mouth, or hands...too bad for the guy, i read that its some type of condition that affects a quite a few people...size..the size of a man's thumb...is that about accurate??

roko