We,being here for a specific motive,to increase our friend circle sometimes find it extremely difficult to get into touch with somebody you are interested in.I never favour forced relationship but people should care for others feelings.If someone comes across and u r nt interested at least have the courtesy to politely tell him in one line.

That is very true
Welcome

Ummmm can I use more than one line... If not I am in trouble.

Welcome to Mingles.. come out and have some fun

I'm not interested.

But welcome anyway.

If you're talking about responding to emails, well that can cause the person saying a polite "no thank you" to get a nasty email.. I've gotten a few and it's not very nice....

At any rate, welcome to Mingle...

Same here, I'm so glad men have stopped emailing me.....

If I had a lot of time and inclination, I'd change my pic back to the one of me and go around randomly emailing a bunch of men, just to see how many give me "polite no thank you replies" and then I'd make a post whining about it.

"Hi , its @@@@@@@ from calgary alberta , and i am white ,and i guess you must of pick me and i sad to say ,im to old for you but i don't look my age ,and i do love to exercise, and i am 57 and iam 125 lbs i lift weights also , and your handsome,and you will find someone soon ,just by looking at you ,you lots of girls ,senting you a email , and i like your profine ,nice ,and your picture ,you look like alot of fun to be with, whoo your very tall ,im only 5 and im christian yes ,so bad god bless one of these days , bye @@@@@@@."

So i kinda thought maybe a no response was the best way to handle this one cause i was quite thouroughly confused and really did not want the frustration of communicating under the circumstances. But she turned out to be a very nice French Canadian lady and very interesting.

But let's look at the possible realities of this???

She doesn't live in another city, nor state, nah....another country entirely...!

The other reasoning behind why this may not work out is I think better left unsaid. But i wrote back she is a nice lady, but don't you think the whole internet dating is a bit vast to feel obligated to respond to every person whom writes you?

That forced relationship is something to think about.

It's a bit titillating, depending on your preference of forcer or forcee, and in which of these two positions you actually end up once in such a relationship.

Worth a try.

My apathy is over riding my indifference to the situation. I kid.