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Topic: You meet a date at he bar and he's a GEEK, what do you do?
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/28/09 11:12 AM
On another dating site someone is posting.... "You meet a date at the bar and she's a SELF RIGHTEOUS BIOTCH, what do you do?"

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 11/28/09 11:13 AM
Lets see describe geek, well, high waisted pants for one thing, hair slicked down like alfalfa, made funny childish faces all night, shall I go on? As for me being faceless, well, I can tell ya I'm no geekette... Thats how I dress when I go out. Woop Woop!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 11/28/09 11:14 AM


Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sat 11/28/09 11:16 AM Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sat 11/28/09 11:17 AM
say really loud "Eeeewwwww, what a geek! Like, Oh My God! I'm not dating yeeeeewwwww" and then do the blonde mating call, "I think I'm drunk!" unless you have to do the ugly blonde mating call, "I said I think I'm drunk!!"

hopefloating Joined Sat 06/13/09 Posts: 214	Sat 11/28/09 11:17 AM
Well..from what your describing...it sounds like he was late for his audition for happy days.... ....by like 50 years....

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 11/28/09 11:36 AM
Yes, it happened to me the other night.....how embarrassing. How embarrassing????????? OK,,see its like this. I have been thought many things, I'm sure, lol But a geek,,,not that one yet?? But, who do you think you are to be EMBARRASSED by this man,?? I mean really,,,did a spot-light come-on and say,,,,LOOK HERE? It's women like you, I feel must be the ones I meet. To be above that guy,(you don't even know) to CALL him any-words? YOU choose to be there, and that makes everyone there open to be there to You didn't say if he walked up to you, or you said hi to him first? But,,,,damn it,,,if he sounded a bit out there, ya just drift away from him,or politely tell him your not there for him...simple huh. But what bothers me is that you come here and talk MORE about this man who you have no-idea his heart and thoughts... YOU could have seemed a Geek to him? in his mind, But I would bet he didn't? He probably saw you,and thought ,,WOW,,she's freaking HOT!!! So he tried,,,humbly to approach you with some conversation. and YOU,,,,,,,,,done what? we don't know as yet? Everyone is who they are,,,, but, who are we that we FEEL the need to talk poorly of them without knowing who they are on the inside as well as their outside? If I went-up to a lady in any surroundings and talked a bit, and she talked back,,we shared a small bit there, if she would stay actively talking with me,,cool,if she wondered away,,cool,, But I wouldn't judge her for her reasons at all,,,? Nor think I was above her in any manner as to say I thought she was a tramp,,,,NEVER,,,,WHY? I just move away,or get away from them,, SHE'S just there like me,,,enjoying her time, and trying to be a part of that place,,,,, It comes down to, I dis-like stereo-typing others w/o even having a real clue to THAT human beings heart. Please,,,for all the (in your mind) geeks and punks, and studs and low- liefs in these places,,,,,TRY, and allow them to be a equal to you. Or at least, let their actions and words for MORE than five minutes, filter through your mind before determining who they really are,wink. hey,,you asked? Just my thoughts here....

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sat 11/28/09 11:41 AM
Lets see describe geek, well, high waisted pants for one thing, hair slicked down like alfalfa, made funny childish faces all night, shall I go on? As for me being faceless, well, I can tell ya I'm no geekette... Maybe he was really late for his Halloween party?

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sat 11/28/09 11:44 AM
Yes, it happened to me the other night.....how embarrassing. How embarrassing????????? OK,,see its like this. I have been thought many things, I'm sure, lol But a geek,,,not that one yet?? But, who do you think you are to be EMBARRASSED by this man,?? I mean really,,,did a spot-light come-on and say,,,,LOOK HERE? It's women like you, I feel must be the ones I meet. To be above that guy,(you don't even know) to CALL him any-words? YOU choose to be there, and that makes everyone there open to be there to You didn't say if he walked up to you, or you said hi to him first? But,,,,damn it,,,if he sounded a bit out there, ya just drift away from him,or politely tell him your not there for him...simple huh. But what bothers me is that you come here and talk MORE about this man who you have no-idea his heart and thoughts... YOU could have seemed a Geek to him? in his mind, But I would bet he didn't? He probably saw you,and thought ,,WOW,,she's freaking HOT!!! So he tried,,,humbly to approach you with some conversation. and YOU,,,,,,,,,done what? we don't know as yet? Everyone is who they are,,,, but, who are we that we FEEL the need to talk poorly of them without knowing who they are on the inside as well as their outside? If I went-up to a lady in any surroundings and talked a bit, and she talked back,,we shared a small bit there, if she would stay actively talking with me,,cool,if she wondered away,,cool,, But I wouldn't judge her for her reasons at all,,,? Nor think I was above her in any manner as to say I thought she was a tramp,,,,NEVER,,,,WHY? I just move away,or get away from them,, SHE'S just there like me,,,enjoying her time, and trying to be a part of that place,,,,, It comes down to, I dis-like stereo-typing others w/o even having a real clue to THAT human beings heart. Please,,,for all the (in your mind) geeks and punks, and studs and low- liefs in these places,,,,,TRY, and allow them to be a equal to you. Or at least, let their actions and words for MORE than five minutes, filter through your mind before determining who they really are,wink. hey,,you asked? Just my thoughts here.... that's kinda what I said I was just trying to be more subtle but then, I'm a geek. so what do I know?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sat 11/28/09 11:45 AM
On another dating site someone is posting.... "You meet a date at the bar and she's a SELF RIGHTEOUS BIOTCH, what do you do?"

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 11/28/09 11:46 AM
How embarrassing he wasn't interested in you

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sat 11/28/09 11:57 AM
I wonder how it would go over if I said "I showed up for a date and she was a FAT chick. Boy was I embarrased"

hopefloating Joined Sat 06/13/09 Posts: 214	Sat 11/28/09 11:58 AM
LMFAO!....

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 11/28/09 12:00 PM
Lets see describe geek, well, high waisted pants for one thing, hair slicked down like alfalfa, made funny childish faces all night, shall I go on? As for me being faceless, well, I can tell ya I'm no geekette... Wow,,do you by chance suffer an inferiority complex against someone you feel is more intelligent than you? Now a GEEKETTE???? OMG???? We have a new form of life in our world.... How's this,,,he was really a smart minded man, and me, well I like and enjoy MY MEN,,,to have NO REAL INTELLIGENT AT ALL... lol Because,,,what you said,,,makes YOU "SOUND" this way.... But was it RIGHT,,,for me to SHOW THAT to everyone here??? I am merely trying to get you to be a little better with your abilities to communicate with ALL walks of people,,,who,,right-now- you feel are a lesser breed of human than your-self. It reads this way through your words and actions in wanting to talk about it on here,wink and calling THEM your own selected GROUP words of slang against THAT culture of minds and people.. again,,just my thoughts,wink, I am NOT, trying to put you down,just trying to get you to SEE,,,all of US better..... WE ALL SHARE THIS LIFE---TOGETHER as a people....we live EQUAL

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/28/09 12:02 PM
I wonder how it would go over if I said "I showed up for a date and she was a FAT chick. Boy was I embarrased" Did you ever see "The Passion of the Christ"? It would look something like that.

aladytoo Joined Tue 02/03/09 Posts: 833	Sat 11/28/09 12:03 PM
Yes, it happened to me the other night.....how embarrassing. one should sit and have a couple drinks with him and be nice and charming even if just to prove that one is not a shallow self important biotch but then thats just my opinion as a geek Guess I don't have to type my thoughts..been done for me.

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sat 11/28/09 12:03 PM
besides when you're as cool as am I EVERYONE is a geek in comparison. part of being cool is making the geeks feel cool too sneering down on the geeks is uncool and only a little bit geekier

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 11/28/09 12:05 PM
On another dating site someone is posting.... "You meet a date at the bar and she's a SELF RIGHTEOUS BIOTCH, what do you do?" You spank that a$$!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/28/09 12:08 PM
On another dating site someone is posting.... "You meet a date at the bar and she's a SELF RIGHTEOUS BIOTCH, what do you do?" You spank that a$$! your new pic Very sexy.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 11/28/09 12:10 PM
On another dating site someone is posting.... "You meet a date at the bar and she's a SELF RIGHTEOUS BIOTCH, what do you do?" You spank that a$$! your new pic Very sexy. It's my new disguise. Assassination's are up this year, so a new look was needed.

jadday Joined Wed 08/19/09 Posts: 4894	Sat 11/28/09 12:10 PM
I would have a couple drinks with him since we were at a bar. During our conversation I would be open and honest with him and let him know that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him. Who knows.....he may end up being a really cool person to hang out with.