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Topic: Long Distance Relationships
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Sat 11/28/09 07:07 AM
LDR's=noway But hey! that's just my personal opinion.I am aware however that some wonderful ppl.from this site have connected in this fashion & I wish them the best.There is a long list of reasons or factors for many.Godspeed!Cy :smile:

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Sat 11/28/09 07:09 AM

what works for some people doesn't work for others

it depends more on the people than the distance

for the right people no distance is insurmountable

and for some people a hour away is too far


I'm a Texan and my girlfriend (papersmile) is in Toronto. its not always easy but nothing that is worth having comes easy


i gotta agree!drinker

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Sat 11/28/09 07:17 AM

what works for some people doesn't work for others

it depends more on the people than the distance

for the right people no distance is insurmountable

and for some people a hour away is too far


I'm a Texan and my girlfriend (papersmile) is in Toronto. its not always easy but nothing that is worth having comes easy





I totally agree.Both parties do have to be on same page.As well you have the communication, trust,and respect of each other.Any thing is possiable,with sound basics.

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Sat 11/28/09 10:27 AM

My sweetie and I will be meeting soon and she is moving here to Nebr. We have chatted for a while and realized what a specail thing we had together, whats waiting a few months mean if U truly wanna be together!!:banana:


I will be there with bells on.I have never,ever met should a wonderful man.:heart: I would move anywhere to just be with him.love love

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Sat 11/28/09 10:31 AM
I would not have a problem with an LDR because I don't want to get married ever again or move in with someone for at least 4 years.

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Sat 11/28/09 11:34 AM
I don't know, I have never had one. Seems those I have an interest in, or are interested in me are very far, I would be open..I would think it would have it challenges..relationships do anyway.

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Sat 11/28/09 02:41 PM
I am currently in a long distance relationship. It's going alright we just dont see that much on each other. Its bothering me alot. I want to do things together but always tired to come and visit me. I guess it's all in that person that you are involved with. Everyone isn't that same. If he love you, you wouldn't have to worryin about him cheating on you and traveling distance between each other.

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Sat 11/28/09 02:43 PM

I am currently in a long distance relationship. It's going alright we just dont see that much on each other. Its bothering me alot. I want to do things together but always tired to come and visit me. I guess it's all in that person that you are involved with. Everyone isn't that same. If he love you, you wouldn't have to worryin about him cheating on you and traveling distance between each other.


But, you're here to find "Mr. Right" and start dating? I guess the LDR is not working out for you. Which I understand, but maybe you should tell him before you start dating.

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Sat 11/28/09 02:44 PM

surprised How long would you wait for someone in a long distance relationship, and do you think it could last?surprised


You don't "Wait" on along distance relationship. You make steps. First slowly and if both parties trust each other enough and a bond forms between the 2..then there has to be steps to be made.

There is no other way.

If there are no steps taken, then the relationship will go stale and eventually ends.

You gotta make life-changing decisions and if you are never feel ready to do it, then you don't love the other.


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Sat 11/28/09 02:51 PM


surprised How long would you wait for someone in a long distance relationship, and do you think it could last?surprised


You don't "Wait" on along distance relationship. You make steps. First slowly and if both parties trust each other enough and a bond forms between the 2..then there has to be steps to be made.

There is no other way.

If there are no steps taken, then the relationship will go stale and eventually ends.

You gotta make life-changing decisions and if you are never feel ready to do it, then you don't love the other.





?!?!?Trust?!?!?! in a relationship! You gotta be kiddin' noway Taking steps.... crap! That sounds like work!
























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