Topic: ITS REALLY HARD!
yenoh87's photo
Fri 11/27/09 04:10 AM
ITS REALLY HARD TO HAVE A SISTER THATS SO STUBBORN AND HARDHEADED, NO MATTER WHAT U SAID TO HER-SHE JUST IGNORED IT... I TRIED TO HELP HER, UNDERSTAND HER BUT IM REALLY TIRED AND EXHAUSTED WITH HER ATTITUDE.. I FELT IM LOSING MY MIND, PATIENCE AND CONTROL..

I DONT REALLY KNOW WAT TO DO WITH HER!


Peccy's photo
Fri 11/27/09 04:17 AM
It's her life....you can't "control" her or any other human being, you said it yourself.

yenoh87's photo
Fri 11/27/09 04:30 AM
IM THE ONE LOSING CONTROL FOR MYSELF

no photo
Fri 11/27/09 05:09 AM
Well stop it then!

Peccy's photo
Fri 11/27/09 05:52 AM

Well stop it then!
as he said! Wassup MM?

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Fri 11/27/09 06:07 AM
slaphead quit telling her what to do & just let her make her own mistakes! spock

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Fri 11/27/09 06:12 AM
frustrated I am hard headed & don't listen myself! slaphead

Carrie748's photo
Fri 11/27/09 06:13 AM
Your right it is really hard when you care about someone and they wont accept your help. They others are right. The only one you have control over is yourself. Sometimes being a good sister means sitting back and letting them make thier own mistakes and just being there when they are ready for you. It's not an easy thing to do

4974's photo
Fri 11/27/09 06:30 AM
i am way to busy managing my life, to run another's... maybe just do the best with your life and she will copy you? lead by example. idk just an idea think

no photo
Fri 11/27/09 06:50 AM

ITS REALLY HARD TO HAVE A SISTER THATS SO STUBBORN AND HARDHEADED, NO MATTER WHAT U SAID TO HER-SHE JUST IGNORED IT... I TRIED TO HELP HER, UNDERSTAND HER BUT IM REALLY TIRED AND EXHAUSTED WITH HER ATTITUDE.. I FELT IM LOSING MY MIND, PATIENCE AND CONTROL..

I DONT REALLY KNOW WAT TO DO WITH HER!


Psssssssst,,,,try talking softer,and she mite be more open.



Just a thought,wink,,,,,,,lol:wink:




No-one can change someone else,,,,They, will,when They want,wink

Just be there,,,,,,,when she falls......:heart:

Gator76's photo
Fri 11/27/09 07:00 AM

ITS REALLY HARD TO HAVE A SISTER THATS SO STUBBORN AND HARDHEADED, NO MATTER WHAT U SAID TO HER-SHE JUST IGNORED IT... I TRIED TO HELP HER, UNDERSTAND HER BUT IM REALLY TIRED AND EXHAUSTED WITH HER ATTITUDE.. I FELT IM LOSING MY MIND, PATIENCE AND CONTROL..

I DONT REALLY KNOW WAT TO DO WITH HER!




Well, perhaps no one besides you and your sister...and certainly no one here...knows enough to advise you too much. But if venting helps...and it can...maybe that's enough for now. Sometimes, distance is a good thing...put some - not permanent - between the two of you...and see what happens. Focus on some other important things in your life. NOTHING stays the same for long! Good luck...flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 11/27/09 07:01 AM
It's time for a divorce!!!!:heart:

yenoh87's photo
Sat 11/28/09 02:59 AM
the hardest part is shes older than me and she already made a big mistake by getting pregnant earlier...


Pureinsanity's photo
Sat 11/28/09 03:06 AM
im an only child so i cant even post an opinion here.
especially since the closest thing to siblings i had was step siblings and i disowned them 14 yrs ago cause they were douches.

yenoh87's photo
Sat 11/28/09 03:14 AM
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE RESPONSE

I REALLY DO APPRECIATE UR COMMMENT