if the site is free why can't i see who viewed my profile , it keep tellin me that i have to upgrade to see who viewed my profile , its not makein sence to me ..

You can see who viewed your profile for free. Click on the main screen under "Who viewed me" and it will list people that viewed your profile.
You have to pay for the upgrade to see who clicked YES on you for mutual match.

Welcome to the forums, nett1, and thanks for your answer, Jill298. I must correct part of it, though. Accounts registered after the creation of MinglePlus are not able to see the 'Who Viewed Me' list without MinglePlus.

Charles... so what happens if I deactivate and reactivate. Do I lose those options and then have to pay?

No, you will not lose that capability if you deactivate and then reactivate.

Charles,

I'm sorry but it still bothers me that the log in page, in 5 different spots says "join free, 100 % free, completely free, put away your credit card, always will be free" etc... but then people are joining to find out, they gotta pay for things like being able to see who viewed their profile?? It just seems a little misleading to me.

If a person is in stealth mode, do paying customers see them?

Also, is there a way to turn off nudges? TIA

Email and Nudges are still free aren't they?

The email is more useful than anything, lots of women have looked at my profile that I never contacted, and I am always in Stealth mode, so it doesn't matter if they upgraded or not.

Nudges are cool because they express interest more than just the person knowing that someone viewed their profile. However I do understand for some members they can be a nuisance.

michiganman3,

Yes...nudges and emails/IMs are free



XenomorphEyez,

Stealth mode just means you don't show online or when you are last one line. That part is blank in stealth mode. You, also, won't show in the search engines, unless it is searching by user name. There are other features as well. But regardless of the upgrade....it won't let members with the upgrade see anything different than others.

As far as the nudges, as off right now...there is not a feature to turn off the nudges. That could be something for the Administrators to consider.

Hope this helps,

Kim

So if I am in stealth mode, I don't show up in searches on this site or a search engine or both?

I misspoke about the stealth mode. This explains about stealth.

Stealth Mode allows you to browse other profiles on the site without letting them know you are interested. In Stealth Mode, the following features are enabled:

* You will not be shown as "Online" to other users
* Other users will not know when you view their profile
* Other users will not know when you add them as a favorite

The drawback is that you will get fewer responses from other members in Stealth Mode because they won't know you are interested. We recommend against remaining in Stealth Mode for long periods of time as you will end up meeting less people as a result.

This shouldn't change for members that have upgraded

^thanks for that.

sorry about that....my allergies are messing with my brain

i just made a new profile and it wont let me see whos looking when you click on it im not going to upgrade i didnt have this problem before and i did all this today i thought free was free

Hi loveteddybears,

Your question was answered in your help thread

Kim
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