Topic: Being picky...
Vietscouty's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:06 PM
Since I'm going through a divorce, I've decided to be a picky person. I was never picky when it comes to women but now after this divorce or in the process of one, I now know what I want and all...and of course, be picky. I don't know if its morally wrong but my friends and family told me that if I don't chose my ladies carefully, I wouldn't be happy nor satisfied whatsoever. In truth, I have high standards when I'm picky, if you want to know what they are, feel free to ask. LOL!

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:17 PM
I don't blame you for being picky and that is your right of course- however- just be careful that you aren't TOO TOO picky that you overlook a wonderful person cuz they aren't "perfect".

also people can be pretty crafty- and pretend to be exactly what you are looking for-

guard your heart but don't close it off completely

good luck to you!

Vietscouty's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:20 PM
YAY! Thanks laughsandgiggles! I may end up interrogating them and try to catch them off guard. I was taught how to interrogate people by a friend of mine since he was working as intelligence in the Army. I won't close my heart off completely, and will guard it.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:24 PM
weeellll maybe interrogating is a bit harsh- try interviewing them- like you are interviewed for a job- you might find out more info if its given willingly lol

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:31 PM
I'm picky

I won't settle for less than the prettiest and smartest and most charming

and look what that got me bigsmile



elduro0001's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:33 PM
When it comes to sharing my life with someone...**** yeah!!! I'm very picky, after all i have to choose the person i want to spend my life with.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:34 PM

I'm picky

I won't settle for less than the prettiest and smartest and most charming

and look what that got me bigsmile



That doesn't count- We all know Papersmile is one of the nicest, sweetest most honest women on here- Im referring to the rest of us lol

you two are just too adorable together by the way!!

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:36 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 11/22/09 12:37 PM
Good for you at being picky. :thumbsup:

I get a lot of hate mail and heat from a few members because I am VERY comme il faut!

I never let other people’s opinions about how I live my life affect me. The minute they pay my bills, and make decisions/take the consequences THEN I will allow them to have an opinion.

I always ask, “Since when is making GOOD choices in life -- and having high standards -- a bad thing?

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:37 PM

I'm picky

I won't settle for less than the prettiest and smartest and most charming

and look what that got me bigsmile



You guys are simply delicious! love

Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/22/09 12:47 PM
Pffft. Pfft! Picky? Dude. Nail everything that moves.:tongue: :tongue: laugh laugh laugh

aladytoo's photo
Sun 11/22/09 01:07 PM
Heal your heart first,getting threw a divorce is tough, but take time and heal too.Truly it makes you a better person, as well able to let someone in again someday.Being picky is fine,as long as you know the one on the otherside is usually, looking for their standards as well.(A personal note) Thank you for giving your time,and life for our Country.flowerforyou