Topic: ladies, do u know the real deal when u see it
wux's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:05 PM
Edited by wux on Fri 11/20/09 09:10 PM
My issue described in this post has been rendered mute, when the OP explained his question.

Hence I edited my earlier post out of here.

tusselboy's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:05 PM

I can usually tell....
but are u still looking for the same thing in the same places??

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:05 PM
Edited by Mayhem_J on Fri 11/20/09 09:06 PM



I'm just wondering if this is the case. I hear it but I don't see it! I think u are all looking for the one who makes u feel good now, whitch isn't aways the real deal?????? Prove me wrong, think with your head not your heart!!!!!


so are you saying we should look for the one who treats us like crap?
no what I'm saying is u are looking in the wrong places, like bars and like places.


I go to the strip clubs and find my women. Nothing says lovin' like a 20$ lap dance.love

Gator76's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:07 PM


And like a breath of stale air on an otherwise beautiful fall evening...laugh


Awesome.laugh laugh


Hey, Goof...thanks. How's it going? :wink:

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:08 PM


I can usually tell....
but are u still looking for the same thing in the same places??


Nope, I really don't look at all...

redhead44613's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:08 PM
I don't look in bars or anything like that an I am still not finding them!! wtf gives?

tusselboy's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:08 PM




I'm just wondering if this is the case. I hear it but I don't see it! I think u are all looking for the one who makes u feel good now, whitch isn't aways the real deal?????? Prove me wrong, think with your head not your heart!!!!!


so are you saying we should look for the one who treats us like crap?
no what I'm saying is u are looking in the wrong places, like bars and like places.


I go to the strip clubs and find my women. Nothing says lovin' like a 20$ lap dance.love
but this doesn,t find even u, the real deal, just a tit of the day?

wux's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:08 PM

I think you have to understand yourself, your nature and the things you need from a partner that will be compatible with the person you are. And when you know those things...you know the real deal when you see it.



If my sample space is people who I am compatible with, that's bad news for me and for the people I'm compatible with.

More of a problem is that I'm compatible with three different sets of people, if you do the dividing by intellect, personality and physical charm; and there is no person with whom we appeal to each other on all three levels, simultaneously.

Hence, I can think with my head or heart or feet or spleen, I am still bloodcurlingly alone.

tusselboy's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:10 PM

I don't look in bars or anything like that an I am still not finding them!! wtf gives?
one day u may, just watch out that u don't let ur guard down!!

Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:10 PM



And like a breath of stale air on an otherwise beautiful fall evening...laugh


Awesome.laugh laugh


Hey, Goof...thanks. How's it going? :wink:


Doing awesome Gator. drinks How are you my fellow Floridian?

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:11 PM



I'm just wondering if this is the case. I hear it but I don't see it! I think u are all looking for the one who makes u feel good now, whitch isn't aways the real deal?????? Prove me wrong, think with your head not your heart!!!!!


so are you saying we should look for the one who treats us like crap?
no what I'm saying is u are looking in the wrong places, like bars and like places.


That is what your post was supposed to ask? slaphead

You really took a wrong turn at Communication Lane when you posed the question.

There have been so many topics on this same question, and for the most part, people believe bars ARE not effective in meeting potential partners.

Lilypetal's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:12 PM


I think you have to understand yourself, your nature and the things you need from a partner that will be compatible with the person you are. And when you know those things...you know the real deal when you see it.



If my sample space is people who I am compatible with, that's bad news for me and for the people I'm compatible with.

More of a problem is that I'm compatible with three different sets of people, if you do the dividing by intellect, personality and physical charm; and there is no person with whom we appeal to each other on all three levels, simultaneously.

Hence, I can think with my head or heart or feet or spleen, I am still bloodcurlingly alone.


You can find it in one person, I did.

tusselboy's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:12 PM


I think you have to understand yourself, your nature and the things you need from a partner that will be compatible with the person you are. And when you know those things...you know the real deal when you see it.



If my sample space is people who I am compatible with, that's bad news for me and for the people I'm compatible with.

More of a problem is that I'm compatible with three different sets of people, if you do the dividing by intellect, personality and physical charm; and there is no person with whom we appeal to each other on all three levels, simultaneously.

Hence, I can think with my head or heart or feet or spleen, I am still bloodcurlingly alone.
sir I wish u realy got what I was saying but ofcoarse u missed it totaly, your loss!

Gator76's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:12 PM




And like a breath of stale air on an otherwise beautiful fall evening...laugh


Awesome.laugh laugh


Hey, Goof...thanks. How's it going? :wink:


Doing awesome Gator. drinks How are you my fellow Floridian?


About to look for a new thread...this one unraveled before you could say, "goofy question!" (No insult intended, of course)! laugh

wux's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:13 PM

There have been so many topics on this same question, and for the most part, people believe bars ARE not effective in meeting potential partners.


Yeah... drunks lose their potency.

Bars are, however, great to meet alcoholics and hardened easy women.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:15 PM
Edited by Mayhem_J on Fri 11/20/09 09:15 PM





I'm just wondering if this is the case. I hear it but I don't see it! I think u are all looking for the one who makes u feel good now, whitch isn't aways the real deal?????? Prove me wrong, think with your head not your heart!!!!!


so are you saying we should look for the one who treats us like crap?
no what I'm saying is u are looking in the wrong places, like bars and like places.


I go to the strip clubs and find my women. Nothing says lovin' like a 20$ lap dance.love
but this doesn,t find even u, the real deal, just a tit of the day?




Make that two tyts of the day a long with some nasty smelly cooch.

tusselboy's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:18 PM


There have been so many topics on this same question, and for the most part, people believe bars ARE not effective in meeting potential partners.


Yeah... drunks lose their potency.

Bars are, however, great to meet alcoholics and hardened easy women.
now this is what I'm saying, that is what most women want when they go to the bar, but is that realy going to find the one of their dreams or a side show! for the here and now, not the future!

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:20 PM
most women going to bars go to hangout with their friends and have a good time... I don't think any of them or at least very few look for or think they will find love...

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:21 PM
so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:26 PM

most women going to bars go to hangout with their friends and have a good time... I don't think any of them or at least very few look for or think they will find love...


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: Again with the pearls of wisdom! waving