She went with her father yesterday to get the papers drawn. I have been living with my mom in Utah for the last month, and she lives in Colorado Springs, we have two girls, and have been married for six yeard. Yes I have my faults, but she lives with her parents and it sucks right now. While we were separated five months ago I cheated on her for one night and she did for three weeks. I really want to make it work. She does not

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If she has no interest in counseling or getting back together you need to mourn the loss and move on to be the best father you can to your children. Best of luck

** edited to say that you must not be tooooooo heartbroken if you are 'looking for a woman for dating'.

I am looking for friends right now, and if a lady comes along, then that would be great. I am thinking of my kids right now.

I think there is an option for looking for friends and I think there is an option for seperated as well.

Best of luck.

I understand. I don't want to be single all my life.

Understood - most of us don't. I don't think though that you're starting off right with the women on here if you aren't honest in your profile. Just my opinion .

I truly hope it works for whats best for your kids sake.But hun 2 wrong don't make a right. Best of luck in what you both deside.There are groups you can join,with people that are going threw seperations, and divorces.Check with your local human services.

whew...I just read your profile....ouch ...divorce??? is that an error in typing???

Wow, that is a lot of drama and very toxic!

Stay single and reinvent yourself. You are too damaged for anything else at this point and the consequences of this will spill to your children. Everything you do in life not only affects you -- but your kids also. You and your wife shouldn't have been selfish because it tore down the family. A "smartly" divorced couple is healthier for kids than two parents who stay married and do bad things to each other.

You brought this on yourself so pull up your big-boy pants and do the right thing for yourself and kids.

It's not the end of the world but you have a road to travel.

Heal yourself, gain some balance, make better choices, and best wishes.

Not to upset you more then you are but, if you want her back what the hell you are doing here in a dating site .Not a good try to get her back . Don't you think so?

Not to upset you more then you are but, if you want her back what the hell you are doing here in a dating site .Not a good try to get her back . Don't you think so?

When I got divorced I missed my kids more than anything!! Just keep in contact with them and let them know U love them, U can get another wife but NO one can replace your children!!

Sounds like you have some soul searching to do my friend. Best of luck....

cant say i feel sorry for you or wife you both did a wrong the kids are the victims here, and being on a dating site shows a lack or real effort, for real if you want her back you would ry and not be on this site . but that saying what goes around comes around is true my friend and your are just reaping your rewards. i would just focus on the kids if i were you, sounds like she done with you.

I am divorced myself and I have come to the conclusion that divorce happens for a reason.

You might want to change your profile. If your wife is just now drawing up the papers, you are not divorced.

Warning, warning, danger Will Robinson

Yeah....it's called..."taking half of all you own"