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The only "traditional" idealism in my life is dating and courtships. I like the man to be a man and ask me out. Shy, spineless, or lack of esteem is not flattering. I am turned on by a man with confidence. So....you wanna go out sometime? |
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Pirate-speak I assume I got that lol Just caught me as funny that's all |
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The only "traditional" idealism in my life is dating and courtships. I like the man to be a man and ask me out. Shy, spineless, or lack of esteem is not flattering. I am turned on by a man with confidence. So....you wanna go out sometime? The Trouble with Tribbles! Sir, I don't know you! |
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Edited by
Tribbles
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Thu 11/19/09 12:31 PM
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we could get to know each other over dinner...
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If you think you like someone go for it this is a free country
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I still like a man to ask me!!
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It's a personal preference. Either way, one doesn't make the other wrong.
Just because someone is "old fashioned" doesn't mean it's a bad thing. I'm old fashioned and I'm perfectly fine with it. To each his/her own |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 11/19/09 12:37 PM
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we could get to know each other over dinner... Will you shave your face first and tone down that hair? |
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do? Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh |
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do? Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh Well, if she cramps my style, then she gets the boot! |
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I never thought that asking was so much a job as a priviledge. I have always thought if a man is not secure enough to take the lead in a relationship with me by asking for a date then he doesn't get who I am at all. Since I can clearly project the view of who I will welcome in my life I don't see it as such a risk to approach me for something as non-comittal as a simple date.
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do? Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! |
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Edited by
wux
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Thu 11/19/09 02:39 PM
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is the man job to ask women for date If it's a job, it pays really poorly. Starvation wages, that won't even get me a payback on the busfare one way downtown. Because, basically, I asked 3,447 women on the sites in my 4 years of Internet-dating activity, and the payback has been... well... dismal. Nada. Not even a pittance. |
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do? Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! But But then I be crampin "her" style Lmao! on second thought... that harness would showcase "my package" well. |
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It's the 21st century It could be either or. If a girl is interested in a guy she should ask him out, otherwise it may be 2 late.
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 11/19/09 05:35 PM
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You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do? Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! But But then I be crampin "her" style Lmao! on second thought... that harness would showcase "my package" well. See? Now you're thinking! Taking a girl golfing or to the driving range for a first date should also appeal to men. What better way to polish the shaft and clean the balls? |
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I think it can go either way. I think men in general are "expected" to ask the women on a date and that is where some people get stuck in role playing.
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Ive asked a lot of women out and seldom turned down in my younger days. ( I wish i could say the same for now.) However, The two women i married asked me out. Later told me when it was time to get married. They also told me when it was time to get divorced. I was alwayse very obediant.
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