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Topic: man or women job?
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Thu 11/19/09 12:27 PM

The only "traditional" idealism in my life is dating and courtships. flowerforyou

I like the man to be a man and ask me out. winking Shy, spineless, or lack of esteem is not flattering. I am turned on by a man with confidence.



So....you wanna go out sometime?

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Thu 11/19/09 12:28 PM


Pirate-speak I assume

I got that lol

Just caught me as funny that's all



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Thu 11/19/09 12:29 PM


The only "traditional" idealism in my life is dating and courtships. flowerforyou

I like the man to be a man and ask me out. winking Shy, spineless, or lack of esteem is not flattering. I am turned on by a man with confidence.



So....you wanna go out sometime?


The Trouble with Tribbles! slaphead Sir, I don't know you! tongue2

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Thu 11/19/09 12:29 PM
Edited by Tribbles on Thu 11/19/09 12:31 PM
we could get to know each other over dinner...bigsmile

knight25's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:32 PM
If you think you like someone go for it this is a free country

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 11/19/09 12:36 PM
I still like a man to ask me!!:heart:



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Thu 11/19/09 12:36 PM
It's a personal preference. Either way, one doesn't make the other wrong.

Just because someone is "old fashioned" doesn't mean it's a bad thing.

I'm old fashioned and I'm perfectly fine with it.

To each his/her own:thumbsup:

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Thu 11/19/09 12:36 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 11/19/09 12:37 PM

we could get to know each other over dinner...bigsmile


Will you shave your face first and tone down that hair? laugh

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Thu 11/19/09 01:51 PM
You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?

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Thu 11/19/09 02:05 PM

You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?


Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh:laughing:

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Thu 11/19/09 02:07 PM


You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?


Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh:laughing:


Well, if she cramps my style, then she gets the boot!:laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 11/19/09 02:29 PM
I never thought that asking was so much a job as a priviledge. I have always thought if a man is not secure enough to take the lead in a relationship with me by asking for a date then he doesn't get who I am at all. Since I can clearly project the view of who I will welcome in my life I don't see it as such a risk to approach me for something as non-comittal as a simple date.

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Thu 11/19/09 02:35 PM


You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?


Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh:laughing:


That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! :banana:

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Thu 11/19/09 02:36 PM
Edited by wux on Thu 11/19/09 02:39 PM

is the man job to ask women for date


If it's a job, it pays really poorly. Starvation wages, that won't even get me a payback on the busfare one way downtown.

Because, basically, I asked 3,447 women on the sites in my 4 years of Internet-dating activity, and the payback has been... well... dismal. Nada. Not even a pittance.

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Thu 11/19/09 02:46 PM



You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?


Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh:laughing:


That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! :banana:



But But then I be crampin "her" style Lmao!
on second thought... that harness would showcase "my package" well.:tongue:

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Thu 11/19/09 04:09 PM
It's the 21st century It could be either or. If a girl is interested in a guy she should ask him out, otherwise it may be 2 late.

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Thu 11/19/09 05:34 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 11/19/09 05:35 PM




You know....if I like a chick...really, really like her, then I nut up and just say...."Hey Yo....You wanna go play putt putt?" Is that so hard for a guy to do?


Golf on the first date???? That's insane! You don't know if she'll cramp yer style or not on the course? sheeesh:laughing:


That's a great first date! So is indoor rock climbing! :banana:



But But then I be crampin "her" style Lmao!
on second thought... that harness would showcase "my package" well.:tongue:


See? Now you're thinking! laugh

Taking a girl golfing or to the driving range for a first date should also appeal to men. What better way to polish the shaft and clean the balls? rofl

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Thu 11/19/09 09:23 PM
I think it can go either way. I think men in general are "expected" to ask the women on a date and that is where some people get stuck in role playing.

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Thu 11/19/09 11:10 PM
Ive asked a lot of women out and seldom turned down in my younger days. ( I wish i could say the same for now.) However, The two women i married asked me out. Later told me when it was time to get married. They also told me when it was time to get divorced. I was alwayse very obediant.

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