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Topic: Got a collect
wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:49 PM
Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day

seamac's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:52 PM
Edited by seamac on Wed 11/18/09 06:53 PM

Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day



Wanna, you already asked and answered your own question! Not to mention, Wanna Jr. needs you.....email me if you get a min.

ledi180's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:52 PM
If you think he's trouble then steer clear of him. Just my opinion.flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:53 PM
well, you know him better than us.... if you are asking for our advice, it probably isn't a good idea.

cherie091279's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:53 PM
You can be friends with him and hang out with him, but that doesn't mean you have to go back to your old ways. You have too much to lose if you happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. There is no reason to forget him, but he needs to understand that you have worked hard to get past where you came from and you want better for your son. If he he a true friend then he will understand. Hope this helps, even just a little.

njmom05's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:54 PM

Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day

Sounds like trouble to me. Think of your little guy, put him first. Good luck, you'll make the right decision.
flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:54 PM
never turn your back on your homeboys

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:00 PM

You can be friends with him and hang out with him, but that doesn't mean you have to go back to your old ways. You have too much to lose if you happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. There is no reason to forget him, but he needs to understand that you have worked hard to get past where you came from and you want better for your son. If he he a true friend then he will understand. Hope this helps, even just a little.


Agreeing here.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:01 PM

never turn your back on your homeboys
Pfffttt

seamac's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:03 PM
Sorry, I disagree. If your homeboys were and still are trouble and you have moved on and changed your life....don't forget them cause then you will forget important life lessons, BUT don't feel the need to go back....life is full of wonder if we live to live it!

no photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:05 PM
If your true friend jumped off a bridge would you?If you are easily influenced by others than I guess stay away...smokin

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:05 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 11/18/09 07:15 PM
Gets out of what? The military? Welcome that boy home!

If you are worried about your old ways of being a bachelor, just let him know you want to hang out but you can't be the same guy. He needs to respect your child and girlfriend!

You guys can be boys without the "bachelor boys for life" attitude, right? winking


EDIT: I reread your topic. My brain omitted the word "prison". scared
I've never known anyone in prison or jail so this is not normal to me. I'd run the other way ASAP and stop taking his calls. surprised

silly's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:08 PM
I think u should just stay away.Y take the change of him bringing u back there.U probably have worked very hard at changing your ways.Your son is the most important one.He is the one that needs u.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:13 PM
My late husband had a "brother" who came out of the woodwork and came to our house for awhile. He caused so much trouble and it was hard to get rid of him. I say be up front with the guy and tell him your focus has changed and that's where it has to stay.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:14 PM

I think u should just stay away.Y take the change of him bringing u back there.U probably have worked very hard at changing your ways.Your son is the most important one.He is the one that needs u.
I think prison can make a boy.A man hes been gone awhile.If he mentions his children i'll know.its life i'll give him a chance:thumbsup:

catseyes1's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:23 PM

Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day


If you decide to hang with him tell him straight out you are not the person you used to be. I think he will understand. Good Luck.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:25 PM


Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day


If you decide to hang with him tell him straight out you are not the person you used to be. I think he will understand. Good Luck.
:thumbsup:

silly's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:25 PM


I think u should just stay away.Y take the change of him bringing u back there.U probably have worked very hard at changing your ways.Your son is the most important one.He is the one that needs u.
I think prison can make a boy.A man hes been gone awhile.If he mentions his children i'll know.its life i'll give him a chance:thumbsup:


I'm just giving u my thoughts.u do what u think is right then.I just don't want to see u get into trouble because of him.

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:27 PM
For my two cents, I'd say meet your friend. Maybe not hang with him, but just catch up on what's going on. Find out what kind of life he will be living once he's out. Also, let him know that you are living a different life and is very happy with it. He should respect that and shouldn't persuade you to do something you don't want to do. Sometimes people change when they are separated from society...key word "sometimes". But I'm sure you will make a good decision. Right now, your son is your best friend. Can't ask for anything better than that.

no photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:29 PM

Call today.A old friend in prison.I grew up with this guy.He gets out in ten daysdrinker But i don't wanna go back to my old ways(i have a lil guy)Momma of his dont give a ****.My lady is hours a way.I'm confused as a.Anyway should i hang out when he gets out.Or forget about my brother from back in the day


He's looking for a place to crash atnoway

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