If you don't know where you stand in a "relationship" it's best to ask, point blank "Where do I stand? Where is this going? Do you want a commitment?" If the answer is not what you're looking for, and you want something else, time to go. I like things simple, quick and dirty, all that hemming and hawing and trying to figure people out is a waste of my time.

That was a tip off the iceburg...

you know? why don't i get lucky like Joe? they always try and put the clamps on me! But you know a few times i liked it! maybe it's cause no one ever trusts me unless they know me? But gosh i always get the 20 questions followed by you better be serious or i'll dump your ***! I'm not scared of commitment at all, just who I might end up commited to! maybe it's cause i am older and the lines just don't work anymore after a while? One more thing i hope no one takes me seriously cause i almost never am, i just enjoy pissin people off!

whether or not there was some label on it, a definition, whatever, i'd still like to know if we were in an exclusive, committed relationship or not.

i'd like to know if he were interested in dating anyone else so that i could move on with my life and date someone who didn't need or want another gal, if that were the case.