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Topic: how do i know he is interested
Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:24 PM
Edited by Edy_ca on Wed 11/11/09 09:24 PM
yeah, i just cant get it right...it's either i though he was, and turned he wasn't, i thought he wasn't, but i wanted him to, but i didn't get...i dont wanna be the one initiating too much, and seem to eager

so wth

men, i need you to spell out for me

and please refrain from "hey, wanna ****" i got that :wink:

if i get to tired, i will catch up with the thread later flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:25 PM
If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:26 PM

If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh


that would gross me out if we were on a date...ill

Jtevans's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:27 PM

If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh



that's how i roll glasses

Scrittore's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:28 PM
If he becomes nervous and socially inept when he's talking to you, or suddenly begins talking in great detail about something that's both very boring and very irrelevant, then he's probably interested.
My friends at the Celtic Club never learn that panic doesn't help...

lonetar25's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:29 PM
im guessing 88% of men are interested in you

the other 12% are gay

so the odds are in your favour

and if you hit the 12% then you probably gain a friend to talk about.... eye liner?

in summery, your fit. if theres a man in the room, your probably in.

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:30 PM

If he becomes nervous and socially inept when he's talking to you, or suddenly begins talking in great detail about something that's both very boring and very irrelevant, then he's probably interested.
My friends at the Celtic Club never learn that panic doesn't help...


that's good...i think i forgot how to clue in to these things...been a while...

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:30 PM
I have found out the fastest and easiest way to find out

is to ASK

Be honest, tell him that you're wanting to make sure of what he's feeling or interested or wanting to pursue so you don't overstep his boundaries.

****generalization here**** Most see I said MOST men do not like to discuss feelings and all the mushy emotional crap. So be upfront, honest and let ask.

It takes care of playing the games

no photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:32 PM
If he says he's interested, that usually means he is.

no photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:32 PM
its very complicated,try something different instead of wink,hug ect. try to say something about the day of the weeks,day of the days.asking his life.somemore related to living:)good luck girl

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:32 PM

im guessing 88% of men are interested in you

the other 12% are gay

so the odds are in your favour

and if you hit the 12% then you probably gain a friend to talk about.... eye liner?

in summery, your fit. if theres a man in the room, your probably in.


that is the biggest compliment i have ever gotten...and it's written down....i'm so gonna print the shi* out of and posted by my bed!
thank you for making my night! flowers

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:35 PM


If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh


that would gross me out if we were on a date...ill


Pffft. Pfft!!! Wussylaugh laugh laugh

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:37 PM
i have had it couple of times when i just came out and asked...straight out...was led to believe that i was pushing for a relationship, while i was only asking where stood...no hidden agenda...no trick questions...oh well

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:38 PM



If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh


that would gross me out if we were on a date...ill


Pffft. Pfft!!! Wussylaugh laugh laugh


ok, maybe i would at least wanna see it love blushing

wux's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:40 PM

yeah, i just cant get it right...it's either i though he was, and turned he wasn't, i thought he wasn't, but i wanted him to, but i didn't get...i dont wanna be the one initiating too much, and seem to eager

so wth

men, i need you to spell out for me

and please refrain from "hey, wanna ****" i got that :wink:

if i get to tired, i will catch up with the thread later flowerforyou


1. He can't keep his eyes off you. Your boobs, specifically.
2. He will quote Shakespeare and Thackerey to you.
3. He is taking you to the grand Ritz for a steak dinner, AND offers to pay for half he fare, but not your drinks.
4. He will NOT flirt with the waiting staff, no matter if he's in the 12% or the 88%.
5. He will look in your eyes deeply. Helps if you take them out and place them in your cleavage.


Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:41 PM

im guessing 88% of men are interested in you

the other 12% are gay

so the odds are in your favour

and if you hit the 12% then you probably gain a friend to talk about.... eye liner?

in summery, your fit. if theres a man in the room, your probably in.


lonetar, you have a cute face, you should leave on all time

Edy_ca's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:43 PM


yeah, i just cant get it right...it's either i though he was, and turned he wasn't, i thought he wasn't, but i wanted him to, but i didn't get...i dont wanna be the one initiating too much, and seem to eager

so wth

men, i need you to spell out for me

and please refrain from "hey, wanna ****" i got that :wink:

if i get to tired, i will catch up with the thread later flowerforyou


1. He can't keep his eyes off you. Your boobs, specifically.
2. He will quote Shakespeare and Thackerey to you.
3. He is taking you to the grand Ritz for a steak dinner, AND offers to pay for half he fare, but not your drinks.
4. He will NOT flirt with the waiting staff, no matter if he's in the 12% or the 88%.
5. He will look in your eyes deeply. Helps if you take them out and place them in your cleavage.




why not the drinks? what would that signal?

wux's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:45 PM



yeah, i just cant get it right...it's either i though he was, and turned he wasn't, i thought he wasn't, but i wanted him to, but i didn't get...i dont wanna be the one initiating too much, and seem to eager

so wth

men, i need you to spell out for me

and please refrain from "hey, wanna ****" i got that :wink:

if i get to tired, i will catch up with the thread later flowerforyou


1. He can't keep his eyes off you. Your boobs, specifically.
2. He will quote Shakespeare and Thackerey to you.
3. He is taking you to the grand Ritz for a steak dinner, AND offers to pay for half he fare, but not your drinks.
4. He will NOT flirt with the waiting staff, no matter if he's in the 12% or the 88%.
5. He will look in your eyes deeply. Helps if you take them out and place them in your cleavage.




why not the drinks? what would that signal?


Because I don't drink. Duh.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:46 PM

If he sports wood...you are Golden!!!:wink: laugh laugh


Mmmm, my favorite!

You think it's a coincidence that one is called "wood" and the other "beaver" for nothing?

rofl rofl rofl


lonetar25's photo
Wed 11/11/09 09:46 PM
have wood, will poke in face

then with luck, giggity giggity goo

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