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Topic: do any of you ladies...
Edy_ca's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:46 PM
have a problem with telling another woman she is attractive...i just posted to melody letting her know that i thought she was hat...and it got me thinking...

i am very comfortable with letting anyone know that i find them attractive...i'm not gay, or bi or anything...but i have had women looking at me funny after i compliment them...


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Tue 11/10/09 05:53 PM
heh i get the same thing...

cherie091279's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:54 PM
I have no problem telling another woman that she is beautiful or getting compliments from other women.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:54 PM
Not at all

I have a thing for looking at beautiful women

I don't know why. I just do

Women are beautiful creatures !!! :heart:

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:56 PM
Hi and what a coincidence you mentioned our little flirt-fest. winking

I am not bi-curious at all and I LOVE eye candy whether it’s a man or woman. smitten

It’s very easy for me to flirt and compliment a sexy, smart woman -- as long as I think she is OK with receiving that “forward” of a compliment. Some people are uncomfortable with “stranger closeness” and I want to respect that boundary.

Flirting is fun though! :banana:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 11/10/09 05:56 PM
tap itsmokin

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:01 PM
yeah, the flirting part...i do have to get a signal...all though i can be oblivious even with men at times...but....when it comes to telling someone they look awesome, attractive etc...should be well received...
not a noway huh and suspicious

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:02 PM

yeah, the flirting part...i do have to get a signal...all though i can be oblivious even with men at times...but....when it comes to telling someone they look awesome, attractive etc...should be well received...
not a noway huh and suspicious


True dat, baby spice! :laughing:

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:04 PM


yeah, the flirting part...i do have to get a signal...all though i can be oblivious even with men at times...but....when it comes to telling someone they look awesome, attractive etc...should be well received...
not a noway huh and suspicious


True dat, baby spice! :laughing:



blushing blushing i would lick you...im not gonna lie...not bi...but still...i would like itlove love i would do it for your smarts rofl rofl

krupa's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:08 PM
Just do your thing girl. We would all be a lot happier and more confident if we all gave and got a simple honest compliment now and then.

On the ones that I think may take it the wrong way, I lead off with...."this is just a simple compliment...NOT a cheesy come on...that comes later".....

krupa's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:29 PM
As I think about it. I have gotten compliments from plenty of guys here. Both straight and gay.

Everything from "you're insane" to "you're sexy". To me it is just a compliment.

The ones that can't take a compliment are immediately ignored in my book. (If I wanna deal with someone with paranoia issues I will call up an ex)

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:32 PM

As I think about it. I have gotten compliments from plenty of guys here. Both straight and gay.

Everything from "you're insane" to "you're sexy". To me it is just a compliment.

The ones that can't take a compliment are immediately ignored in my book. (If I wanna deal with someone with paranoia issues I will call up an ex)


getting complimented from the same sex is awesome...i like it :smile:

Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:32 PM
Bow chikka wow wow!!

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Tue 11/10/09 06:33 PM
I tell them that all the time and they throw rocks at me!!noway :wink:

galendgirl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:34 PM

have a problem with telling another woman she is attractive...i just posted to melody letting her know that i thought she was hat...and it got me thinking...

i am very comfortable with letting anyone know that i find them attractive...i'm not gay, or bi or anything...but i have had women looking at me funny after i compliment them...




Women seem to be able to appreciate other women without much fear of being tagged as gay...
I don't think it's weird at all to be complimentary if it's honest.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:36 PM
I told a young gal in a store the other day that I liked her lipstick. I may as well have told her, "Let's meet out back for some hot monkey love." She looked at me so oddly.surprised

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:38 PM
I think alot of women are HAWt but I don't consider myself liking them THAT way...I just think it will boost their self esteem a bit

Edy_ca's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:39 PM

I told a young gal in a store the other day that I liked her lipstick. I may as well have told her, "Let's meet out back for some hot monkey love." She looked at me so oddly.surprised


i sometimes push my luck because i am very scent oriented too..so if you smell good, there is a good chance i will stalk you devil

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:39 PM

As I think about it. I have gotten compliments from plenty of guys here. Both straight and gay.

Everything from "you're insane" to "you're sexy". To me it is just a compliment.

The ones that can't take a compliment are immediately ignored in my book. (If I wanna deal with someone with paranoia issues I will call up an ex)





You ARE insane and you ARE sexy. You'll have to live with that fact.flowerforyou winking

galendgirl's photo
Tue 11/10/09 06:39 PM

I told a young gal in a store the other day that I liked her lipstick. I may as well have told her, "Let's meet out back for some hot monkey love." She looked at me so oddly.surprised


Well geez, Katz...if you showed her THIS face, it's no wonder!


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