@ Isaac. My life doesn't feel rite without him. It's as if someone died. I'm the same old me i've always been. I wud take a bullet 4 him.

@yellowrose. Makes sense :). I WILL have 2 take whatever help is necessary. I know. *nods* Thanx.

just learn how to be happy with yourself before looking for someone else. It makes break ups easier (still hard) but easier.

Best of luck to you...remember to work on YOU and be happy with YOU

But you were the one that broke it off, so at some point you thought you life would be better off without him.....no you are changing you mind, I am only saying you need to look back and see why at that time you thought life would be better off without him...and if issues are still there that caused you to brake up with him in the first place it wont work again.

@ yellowrose. :) Yep!! I know wot i like 2 do in life. I'll do that. lol. Concentratin on my band in this case. lol

It'll just take time. I dated a guy who I eventually ended up engaged to, and when we broke up it hurt like hell, and sometimes it still does. You just have to be patient... you'll be fine again.

@ Isaac. Yeah, i weigh up the pro's and con's of bein without him. I also remember wonderin if he truly loved me. Maybe i shudn't think like that, i got paranoid wen he talked 2 me, as he got hard 2 trust. He changed as soon as he started college. He just seemed cocky, and not as charmin as he woz.

Rose is correct on this one.

It is hard feeling like your guts have been ripped out and you are an empty shell. But time is the only thing that really helps it, so finding something to do with yourself that is positive for you so that time will pass is the best thing.

Sleeping too much is bad for depression. Make yourself stay up to help fight it. Dark rooms or places are not good for depression. Staying inside is not good for depression.

I hope that helps some. Get professional help if you feel yourself slipping too deep.

One way I've found that helps, is go do something you enjoy that you normally wouldn't do if you were with him. Go have fun, do some of the 'single' things meet new people, just get out and go do...who knows you may find that you actually enjoy life a little more

@ morgannicole. Thanx :). I know the meanin of hurtin like hell. lol. It always hurts wen it's only been a few month.

@ Dragoness. I'm tryin 2 figure out y my mum got us back on speakin terms last xmas. I woz happy. I 4got about him. I moved on, until he walked back into my life. This then confused me, not knowin whether i woz goin forward with my life or backward.

@ Isaac. I'd better just go do that. Yeah! After all, nobody knows wot the future holds.

there is a really cool site I go on and it lists all sorts of things in your area to do, Their is one group in my area that gets together as a huge group just to get discounted movie tickets, $5.50 and generally about 25 people or so show up, meet quite a few new people, and go to the movies cheaper if interested email me and I'll send you the link...don't want to 'advertise' other sites on here in the threads

Omg i'm so exhausted. lol. Better sign off and go sleep. If any1 else leave a reply i'll read it 2morrow. Thank u all 4 ur kind help. Besito's :) xx

been there.
i was crazy for a girl who stopped seeing me after about 6 fun months. i still think of her everyday and it hurts. it's been 2.5 years.
can't blame her though. i was in a bad space mentally.



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Hang in there. You are more important than him right now.

Thank u all :). I sumtimes cry 2 the point where i exhaust myself. lol. I'd just prefer 2 cry, without feelin angry about it, but as of yet i don't know how. I bought a punchbag 2 get the anger out. It really helps quite a bit. I know that wen i woz thinkin about leavin him, i thawt that if he wasn't in my life anymore, i wudn't remember past arguements. So yeah. I'll c how i go. 1 day at a time. Have a bad habit of thinkin about 5 years on, rather than the present. thanx. xoxo