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Topic: How long should one wait?
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Mon 11/09/09 01:57 PM


"Sigh". Okay people. He asked this question, and in doing so, he gave me the impression that he "feels" ready to date. That, or he thinks he is ready for it, and he wants to know if there is like some sort of time limit on how long to wait.

Ok. There is no rule book in dating, and as such, there is no law that says when you can or can't date. It is basically your call. You have spent six months single, are divorced, and it is apparent that urge to see what is out there is striking your curiousness. Well, the only way to find out what is out there is to go out and date.

I'm sorry, but you are over thinking this way too much, and it seems you are putting alot of pressure on yourself over this too. I just wonder why that is? I waited almost a year before I dated (after my divorce), and I was ready when I did. I never questioned if I was ready at six months because I had no interest in dating. You seem to have this interest, and so I think you should just figure out if you want to do this. If so, then don't half-a$$ it. Go for it. Meet chicks. Date em. See how fun and crazy they are. Enjoy the ride.







Stewie!!! He's the only baby I'd ever want, simply because he's pure evil!laugh

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Mon 11/09/09 03:12 PM


"Sigh". Okay people. He asked this question, and in doing so, he gave me the impression that he "feels" ready to date. That, or he thinks he is ready for it, and he wants to know if there is like some sort of time limit on how long to wait.

Ok. There is no rule book in dating, and as such, there is no law that says when you can or can't date. It is basically your call. You have spent six months single, are divorced, and it is apparent that urge to see what is out there is striking your curiousness. Well, the only way to find out what is out there is to go out and date.

I'm sorry, but you are over thinking this way too much, and it seems you are putting alot of pressure on yourself over this too. I just wonder why that is? I waited almost a year before I dated (after my divorce), and I was ready when I did. I never questioned if I was ready at six months because I had no interest in dating. You seem to have this interest, and so I think you should just figure out if you want to do this. If so, then don't half-a$$ it. Go for it. Meet chicks. Date em. See how fun and crazy they are. Enjoy the ride.









OMG Melody. If this had been a pic of when the Kool Aid man busted through the courtroom when Peter was being tried for killing Lois, I would have made a "Darth Doody"...."Or Sithed my pants".laugh laugh

And for those of you who have seen Blue Harvest, you know what those two quotes refer too.

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Mon 11/09/09 03:22 PM



"Sigh". Okay people. He asked this question, and in doing so, he gave me the impression that he "feels" ready to date. That, or he thinks he is ready for it, and he wants to know if there is like some sort of time limit on how long to wait.

Ok. There is no rule book in dating, and as such, there is no law that says when you can or can't date. It is basically your call. You have spent six months single, are divorced, and it is apparent that urge to see what is out there is striking your curiousness. Well, the only way to find out what is out there is to go out and date.

I'm sorry, but you are over thinking this way too much, and it seems you are putting alot of pressure on yourself over this too. I just wonder why that is? I waited almost a year before I dated (after my divorce), and I was ready when I did. I never questioned if I was ready at six months because I had no interest in dating. You seem to have this interest, and so I think you should just figure out if you want to do this. If so, then don't half-a$$ it. Go for it. Meet chicks. Date em. See how fun and crazy they are. Enjoy the ride.









OMG Melody. If this had been a pic of when the Kool Aid man busted through the courtroom when Peter was being tried for killing Lois, I would have made a "Darth Doody"...."Or Sithed my pants".laugh laugh

And for those of you who have seen Blue Harvest, you know what those two quotes refer too.


Have I infected you yet with my wily ways?


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Mon 11/09/09 03:46 PM




"Sigh". Okay people. He asked this question, and in doing so, he gave me the impression that he "feels" ready to date. That, or he thinks he is ready for it, and he wants to know if there is like some sort of time limit on how long to wait.

Ok. There is no rule book in dating, and as such, there is no law that says when you can or can't date. It is basically your call. You have spent six months single, are divorced, and it is apparent that urge to see what is out there is striking your curiousness. Well, the only way to find out what is out there is to go out and date.

I'm sorry, but you are over thinking this way too much, and it seems you are putting alot of pressure on yourself over this too. I just wonder why that is? I waited almost a year before I dated (after my divorce), and I was ready when I did. I never questioned if I was ready at six months because I had no interest in dating. You seem to have this interest, and so I think you should just figure out if you want to do this. If so, then don't half-a$$ it. Go for it. Meet chicks. Date em. See how fun and crazy they are. Enjoy the ride.









OMG Melody. If this had been a pic of when the Kool Aid man busted through the courtroom when Peter was being tried for killing Lois, I would have made a "Darth Doody"...."Or Sithed my pants".laugh laugh

And for those of you who have seen Blue Harvest, you know what those two quotes refer too.


Have I infected you yet with my wily ways?





Is that what you are doing?:wink: :tongue: :tongue:

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Mon 11/09/09 03:57 PM

I have been separated for 6 months and i am now officially divorced.How long is it proper to wait before I go on an official date.I am ready and willing ,but want to be proper.


Randy,

Please take this as heartfelt advice from someone who has been there. I don't know the circumstances of your divorce but you need to deal with your emotional baggage before dating. If you jump into dating it will make you feel wanted, desirable and be a lovely band aid. However, if you haven't learned to live with yourself, the chances of you getting hurt or hurting someone else is high.

Take time, find yourself, heal and become whole. I hope this helps.

C

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Mon 11/09/09 04:11 PM
when you stop having sex with the ex and divorce is final your ready to go!

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