oops my bad bored. lol

Why ty Bored.

nah don't be sorry. I will use your info in the future

well i can,t relate, it should only be used when necessary.
I prefer to show you love, the more you say it, the less meaning it has.

When IN a relationship, EVERYDAY,,,in the morning and at bed time,,with
no exceptions except maybe saying it through the course of our day spent
together, but NEVER LESS!!!!

Once said and then together always,,it was said always, and to my kids
NOW and ALL their lives,,every conversation we end it with love
you,,,their NOW all adults, in there twenty's..

hmm manwich that actually makes alot of sense.

Say it when you mean it because when overdone it can decrease the
meaning and significance of the word

~APPLAUSE~

Love:

I believe we all yearn to connect with another soul at some time in our
lives. This work is my yearning, hope, day dreams of the past and
present. To merely utter the words I love you is a tragedy! I hope to
share my life with someone who understands the gift that love is and the
care and tending it requires; retaining its power.

stick around youngun, you may learn something.

that was beautiful creatiosoffire

so profound!

manwich what you said wasn't anything I haven't heard before.

Yes I am a youngin' and proud woo hoo!

I LOVE YOU should NEVER feel USED OUT,,,JUST SAID AND EXPRESSED
MORE!!! If two people REALLY have the LOVE then saying it should
always be in their minds when not in their actions or their words...and
in my 16 year marrage it was never USED to much or GOT OLD,,,it just
became more respected!!

I like to hear I love you backed up by actions.If you can't do
that,don't bother saying it at all.I don't say it lightly myself.

Thankyou. I wrote that as a comment for a poem I wrote many years ago. I
thought it might apply to you question. Glad you liked it.

Maybe I should put it in my profile? LOL

I know a lot of people who toss, "I love you" around as if it was a God
Bless You to somebody who sneezes. In their defense, they may be
sincere - but to me it's just too blaz'e. This is a learned behavior
thing for me. I rarely even say it to my kids. They tell me and then
get a "Back at cha Babe!" So maybe saying or not saying, I love you
isn't just an emotional response, but more a response of how you've been
conditioned to express it.

I don't think there is any difference between men and women and it's not
something you can put a time limit on when to say it or not. it's
something that comes with time. What I do know is if your going to use
the word I love you, do it only if you really feel that way. To many
people I've seen say it so much that it becomes nothing but a word just
to say. So I have to disagree with saying it all the time and everyday.

saying I love you, is not the same as saying I am in love with you..and
yes I love a lot of people!!!!!

creationsoffire you should post that in your profile

adifferentkindofwench YOU CRACK ME UP!


"I know a lot of people who toss, "I love you" around as if it was a God
Bless You to somebody who sneezes. "

Trizar that is a very powerful point thank you

>> don't think there is any difference between men and women and it's not something you can put a time limit on when to say it or not.

Shadow, absolutely. I mean, I can see that there are some trends,
influenced by our culture, but ultimately each -person- is different.

BoredChick, -some women also- do things like say 'I love you' when they
want something, and only because they want something.

And the one woman in my life who had the greatest capacity and
willingness to love -never- said it in words... only in every single
thing she did.